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As we know, most women find the vast majority of men physically unattractive due to not being born with physical traits out of their control. These traits include, race, height, skeletal frame, early male pattern baldness, hair colour etc. We also know that women in their prime tend to hyperfocus and date the hottest and/or richest men and often use sex to try to secure a relationship. Granted, some women are smart enough to lock on an average guy, who shows high potential to be a successful earner and gets him to commit to her early.

Now, for the men who this doesn't apply to, they are basically told by women to "work on themselves", which basically means to grind and make tons of money, so when women are ready to settle down (usually by their late 20s to early 30s), they have a nice retirement plan to look forward to. Women will use the fact that this group of men are sexually/romantically inexperience, as well as, desperate to reel them into commitment. Sex starts off enthusiastic to hook the man in to the relationship. Women are also on their best behavior and guys are lead to believe that this will be the baseline more or less.

Eventually, when an average man marries a woman, another layer of security is put in place that basically ensures the man pays a hefty price if he ever leaves the woman. This is usually in the form of spousal support an/or child support. Thus, women no longer need to have sex with you, since she has you shackled to a contract that says you provide for her in or out of the relationship. Sex is used as a reward for good behavior/out of duty and not because the wife generally wants to sleep with their husband. Sometimes, women will stop sleeping with their husband all together, despite his best efforts, and men feeling neglected often seek sexual relief else where.

Example, this sex therapist is able to make 500k/year by sleeping with men whose wives have stopped sleeping with them.

• Taken women still want the eyes of other men on their bodies
• Women will be with a man with multiple women
• Most men would smash multiple women night after night if they could
• 50% of relationships experience some type of cheating
• Most spouses seem to have no issue taking someone's kids, assets, nd life away from them while getting laid out by other people
• These facts are important to regonize. It highlights that the only way monogamy works is by keeping the chase alive. And to select a partner who is obsessive, who has a brain that almost overthinks. Once someone feels they have you it's OVER. That's why men who are willing to give money to women, are IMMEDIATELY put in the "trash" category. Even hot men who just want sex are put into the trash category in my personal experience. People want others to be OBSESSED with them. But not too quickly, and most people dont want to own another human as a slave or the problems that come with them.
• We hear about women taminy the man they like... but its not to tame him. It's to put him in his place as beneath her so she can move on. Remember Sigmund Freud said women's sex drive is by envy. And who likes feeling envious? The thing that makes them want men makes them want to destroy men

I believe a very small percentage of women are happiest when they are in complete control of their bfs/spouses. But the others who are married to simps are just using them for the best of both worlds (simp support and cheating with assholes). They would be miserable if they were forced to stay loyal to a simp.

I am a genuine nice guy myself but I had a few women very wrongly assume I would be okay with being their “simp”. Ah no. FUCK no. I got too much self respect for that.

This has lead to me being long time single for stretches at a time in the past. But I rather be lonely and have self respect.

I personally would be happiest with a woman who is about 2/3rds passive and 1/3 aggressive. I want to be in control most of the time but not all of the time. But most women I meet are about 90/10 on all this. One way or another.