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I find it baffling if they’re a woman & still stay single, as it’s known women have it easier. The most I do being a 29F is go on dating apps on and off, I’ve been single for several years. It seems like being in a relationship with a man is not possible for me, I get the attention you’d expect as a woman on the app but it doesn’t go anywhere for a multitude of reasons. Which is why I have to ask myself if I’m actually attractive or if everyone in my life is lying to me. In person, I have yet to be approached by a guy I’d actually want to date. I’m not the friendliest, if supermodels can find love then I feel it’s an excuse when people tell me I’m “intimidating”

He is an exclassmate, an old friend of my best friend, who was once her guy best friend, (he has had a hard glow up, and i still look the same. Just older and more mature. Not sure if he remembers me. So i will introduce myself.)

We do flirt, but again, it's while I'm working, when he actually comes in.

she sent me his snap to add. I added it. (Yes she's got a boyfriend)

His mother NEVER, I repeat, NEVER comes in the store and has not come in since. He only comes in BY himself.

He has done all the obvious signs of being interested, but I get the hint, he's shy. (Always has been tbh) the eye contact is INTENSE🫠 but subtle.

How should I approach him on snap without sounding desperate, stalkerish and weird asf? Like how did I get his snap, and where to go from there😭😭😭😭

Convo starters apperciated😭 he's super shy, seems very sweet since my bsf can vouch for him and extremely confident in himself.