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30f and I really can’t tell if I’m inevitably single because I don’t want a relationship or it’s a case of self sabotage. Within the past few years, the only attention I’ve gotten from attractive guys were on dating apps. But that should be taken with a grain of salt, I feel like compared to the average woman, I don’t get attention from quality guys in person. I’m pretty shy and tend to speak when spoken to, on top of bad anxiety, I’ll say I question if women can relate to my lack of sex drive. I haven’t had sex since my early twenties/don’t masturbate and couldn’t care less if I died a virgin, will feel some kind of way if I’ve never found love though.

It’s as if I want the reassurance I’m desirable (from what seems like decent men) vs actually going out on dates, I’m insecure but wouldn’t just go for anyone that gives me the time of day. I just don’t get why it can’t ever go my way w/ the OLD apps, it’s likely bad luck but a pattern of: ghosting, fizzling out, the convo not flowing to my expectations & I dip out, just lack of interest (can go both ways) etc. I’m attracted to men, I really don’t think id date a woman but something about men at the same time turns me off (physically & personality wise). Like almost every woman I've known has been boy crazy since they were pre-teens and I never got it, I thought they were exaggerating or I was a late bloomer. Well here I am 2 decades later, my closest thing to boy crazy were celebrity crushes.

Am I looking for excuses to justify being single? Is it simply a case of being unlucky? Is there more to unpack here? Or is the right guy all it takes for it to fall into place?

No high quality man ( definitely exclude alcoholic smokers who have casual sex) marries any legal teenager (and no woman was any age forever) Most Indians definitely want a working woman and only consider you for marriage if you have at least graduated from college. This means you’re at least 24 when you can think of getting married or even older if you have their preferred career. That leaves you with 5 years before they start yelling that you are “old” and should marry anyone! Most Indian boys can’t hold a conversation , don’t have a soothing or sexy accent, don’t look decent enough to be dream guys or satisfy your needs and think they’re superior even when they can never be your dream. It’s been tried and tested. So if you’re an above average woman in India, you’re probably not going anywhere. You also can’t try and dream of someone from a different country because some people have a confirmation bias. They exclude anyone who isn’t their preferred race.

Why is every girl surgically operated these days? They all have giant round turned up butts. And they all pretend they got it at the gym. You seen them doing ass workouts with their fake assess. And no this isn’t jealously, I just find it absurd they really think their fooling anyone since all of them do the same thing they all know they’re lying.

For example girl A is at the gym doing ass workouts with her fake ass.
she looks over and girl B is also doing some other ass workout with her also operated butt, this body shape is unmistakable, all who get surgery can tell right away where there’s another fake ass, so they both know they’re neither of them got that ass and small waist at the gym.

they both know they got fat sucked out of the fat stomach to make it small and inject the fat to the ass to make it large

so they both know they’re liars, don’t they feel ridiculous?

and so men really prefer these bodies? They didn’t actually do the work for it, they just paid and pretend they did it with gym work.

they all look the same. Just some Alger than others but the same body shape, do men really like this unnatural surgically formed figure?

if that’s the case then all the remaining women will have to get operated too if they don’t want to be single since that’s what men are preferring these days, the fake woman.

Age doesn’t matter from 18, 25, 30, 45, etc

they all start to look like this. It’s not the natural shape it’s an exaggerated artificial curve. And from the front there’s no hip dip that’s the clear part where it’s also evident it’s been surgically enhanced

men are overlooking natural woman because the prefer the fakes?