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Signs someone’s cheating

Please don’t get me wrong these signs depend on the person and means someone COULD be cheating not proof that they are. As well as if someone’s good at hiding it you may never see any of these traits.

Signs someone’s cheating

Sudden Changes In Communication

This can be a red flag for many reasons besides cheating. But if someone’s being a lot more vague or the other extreme sharing way too many details. If someone’s not communicating as much to you about how they feel, as well as having more emoticons outbursts, and the list goes on. It could be a sign that they are seeing someone else. As well as if they aren’t as open with you anymore.

Weird schedules

Their stories change, they are working weird hours without exclamation, they are out drinking with friends, at the gym, among other things as well. Notice weird patterns in their friends as well unfortunately many friends will cover for one another. They want someone to cover for them as well. So be aware of this as well as strange behavior by friends.

Increased Privacy

You notice they are closed off, they are defensive over their phone, among other things like that. If you ask them where they’re going they may become very overly defensive even over small things. That’s a major red flag someone’s cheating. Especially if they weren’t reserved before but have either suddenly or gradually gotten more and more closed off. They may be gone for hours on end and be completely in the dark.

Emotional Distance

This can be the extremes as well you may notice over compensation but over time this will drop off. Emotional distance many times means the affair may have been going on for a while now and they have created a emotional attachment to someone else. They may even completely resent you and HATE you…. Just riding it out until they can leave. They don’t want intimacy anymore, they are cold, they don’t want you touching them, you may feel completely isolated from them. They just don’t hardly ever want to be around you. They push your hand away when you go to touch them and things like that.

Changes in appearance

This is a sign that many people don’t see. If someone all the sudden is caring about how they look they may be either seeking someone or already have someone. For instance if someone’s getting their hair fixed and everything else all nice when they used to not care. Hitting the gym. Used to not care how they looked in public but are all the sudden all dolled up…. Yeah we may have a problem.

New hobbies and interests

This is a major thing many people take after their significant others. If someone used to for instance listen to country but all the sudden they are listening to rap… Yeah that could be a sign. If all the sudden they are picking up weird hobbies they never had before. Wanting to do things they never shown interest in before.

Inconsistent Stories

Their stories change not only will they become defensive. But if you ask them what they did at 10 last night and one time they say they were at a party and the next they were driving home. They can’t remember key details of their stories. If they tell sone elaborate story and they somehow don’t know things you would think they would know as well as their stories change. They probably think you’re stupid and will believe anything.

Mood swings and irritability

They get angry at the slightest of things. On the other hand they may be very sad. Someone may have a lot of guilt and shame for cheating. They may cry. They may also become angry. They may start accusing you of the things you’re doing. Extreme offensiveness and defensiveness. They gaslight your calling you crazy when they notice their patterns. Some cheaters may deeply resent and even hate your guts. They will just blow up in anger over the stupidest of things. Especially when they’re comparing you to someone else. You left the toilet seat up…. If you’re a woman you didn’t do whatever. Even explosive anger.

Neglecting Responsibilities

Whatever roles you may have in a relationship. If someone starts to neglect their roles and the relationship becomes one sided. They are putting their energy into someone else. Maybe they used to cook and clean but now refuse to or resort to making boxed dinners. Maybe they used to mow the lawn or take care of more financial responsibilities and have just lost interest. Whatever someone’s roles may have been they start neglecting it. It’s like they don’t care anymore… Because they don’t.

Intimacy Issues

It doesn’t just have to be sexual but it can be romantic as well. If someone has zero interest in you anymore. Are bored in bed…. It may not at all mean they have lost interest in it. Maybe if it’s a man he can’t get it up or for a woman she’s as dry as a popcorn fart. It may be that they’re getting it from someone else. Sometimes they may overcompensate at first. But then it drops off over time…. Until it’s fewer and farther in between. There is always a excuse why they don’t want to do X, Y, Z…. The way they used to. They may also be doing new stuff in the bedroom you never did with them before.

Overly Offensive behavior

I covered being overly defensive. But they will also many times be overly offensive as well. Accusing you baselessly of cheating among other things. Not trusting you. Demanding to see your phone and demanding a exclamation on everything you do. If you went to the store for a hour…. What were you doing there. You’re met with a barrage of questions.

Financial Issues

Are they spending money on someone else? Or on the other extreme do they have a expensive items that have come from nowhere? That someone may have given to them. You may notice weird chunks of money are gone if someone’s also taking someone on dates and buying someone expensive gifts.

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