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Search Results: if you text a girl first
Why did he make me feel bad by lying to me rather than just being honest with me?
I hit it off well with a guy. We talked often and had good conversation for two months. He was gentle, patient, kind a overall gentleman. We went on a date. We often went on walks/strolls in nice park areas with nice...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a girl invite you out or ask you out but never text back or show up?
You didn’t ask her out or send a message first you both rarely talk and the girl is uninterested no communication for weeks before and after asking
LuckyJ888
Xper 3 Age: 26 Why do men give girls attention but not want to pursue anything, not even sex?
I've never had a relationship and im almost 30. Im really sad and always heart broken whenever i think im about to get my first boyfriend when i start talking to a guy. Its not even that “oh, turns out we’re not a match”,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Not sure about this situation?
I met this guy we only see each other once a week on the 2nd date he made it official and the third date he said he loves me and he even kissed me 4 times that day. On our dates he always takes me for drinks. I’m confused...
Anonymous
(18-24) Did I screw it up?
I stayed friends with a guy i barely dated and it went well, we kept the friendship, the more i ignored him the more he texted, he texted every day or every other day when we agreed that we dont need to talk every day...
Anonymous
(25-29) How to know if he's just friendly or a player? Will I have a chance to shoot my shot?
This classmate first attempted to talk to me in the fall 2023. Coincidentally, we got classes together again in spring 2024. He's always the person to talk to me first, I never went up to him. I'm an introvert and I'd...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do women lose interest in me so fast?
First off, I'm a Tall guy, physically fit with tattoos who has gone through some dating trouble recently. Fitness is my lifestyle essentially. I would definitely say I'm a very confident and social guy as well. Most...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a woman ghost after a great first date?
I've been around the block a few times now. I though I've seen it all when it comes to dating and mostly it doesn't phase me. But this situation is truly eating away at my sanity. I went on a date with a girl last...
Anonymous
(25-29) First text after a hookup? [24M] + [21F]?
Hey all, Had a great night with this girl I met at the bar/club. We ended up making out on the dance floor, then went back to her friend’s place for an after party where we did some shots and got pretty drunk. We made out...
Anonymous
(25-29) 
Worried about my BF’s relationship with his work wife. How can we move forward with trust?
My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a year now. We break up for two weeks and strong as ever the last 4 months. However my boyfriend was frequently discussing his female friend who helped him land a job. I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is she giving me the green light by saying, “But the thing is?”?
I met this girl at work and there seems to be attraction but she told me she has a boyfriend. Our conversation seems to imply she’s open to more, but maybe I’m mistaken. What do you guys thing. She gave her WhatsApp. When...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I reach out to him?
Okay please I need a guys or girls perspective on this. So about a month ago I met this guy online and we started talking it was so nice at first we had nice conversations but about a few days into talking we had a...
Aaliyahh007
Xper 1 Age: 19 She blocked me because I didn’t reply fast enough?
so i met this girl on instagram she lives in another state. we’ve been talking for a week and we ft for the first time last night. i know when i first met her she was mad because i didn’t reply for like two hours but i...
mari_q
Xper 1 Age: 18 What are your dating app pet peeves?
Man dating apps suck I’m ready to just give up at this point. The pet peeve i have is when girls will match with you just to never and you a single message or just unmatch you for no reason, why’d you match and waste my...
MLGbreezy
Yoda Age: 27 There is a girl at my church I'd like to pursue a relationship with. Any advice?
I'm a college student, and i hang at my churches student center very frequently. I met a girl this year there and we are friends. We talk when we see each other. we shared numbers, and we text a little, and we're both...
bepis0_
Xper 1 Age: 22 Why a girl who friend-zoned me starts texting after monthes of no contact?
“Okay, everyone, it feels shameful to say, but I liked her for about four years before I told her, and she friend-zoned me. I tried to stay away from her, but she was always trying to stay friends with me. She kind of...
Anonymous
(18-24) What's the best strategy to only get matches with virgin girls on dating apps?
What's the best strategy to only get matches with virgin girls on dating apps? Should i write in BIO that only virgins should swipe me right/like me? There is this website where AI helps to make a BIO. It makes text...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Guys, Should I attempt to ask her out again?
I’ve been hooking up & texting this girl from work for about a month now. I’m 34 and she’s 23, so there’s a bit of an age gap between us. That being said, she went out of her way to get my attention for about 2-3 months....
mesothelioma89
Xper 1 Age: 36 Does she still like me?
This girl used to like me and I liked her too and I know she liked me because she gave me all the signs and she like me for about a year and a half but that last time we hangout together I told her as a joke that I would...
Anonymous
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