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My cousin and I had a falling out after she did something I asked her not to do revolving a guy…She is transgender and at first I told her to look on his page then I said never mind bc I realized I may not be able to trust her. I felt upset because I was not over the guy and it took me a year to really stop hurting….. I was telling my mother about it and she unknowingly admitted to me that she did snoop and she tried to see if he would reach out to her…. which hurt me soooo deeply. Instead of addressing the issue or supporting me, my mother brushed it off and continued to act as if nothing was wrong between us. This made me feel betrayed and dismissed, and I’m finding it hard to move past it.

she said things like “she wouldn’t do that “ “take responsibility for involving her” “ you’ve done things too” ( I would never try to talk to someone else’s person)…

I feel extremely hurt..

A couple of months ago I had a falling out with some ex situationships/ failed talking stages. It took me a while to block them, but eventually I did. A couple of days ago, I get a friend request on Instagram from a "new" account. The profile picture is a gopher. They had 10 followers and were following 20 accounts. The bio claims they are a younger student at my school graduating in 2027. "Malcom Knight" was the name. I started asking who they were, how they found me, and what their real name was.

They said it was their real name, and that they found me through recommended accounts. I searched up their name in the school's email list and this name doesn't exist. When I confronted them about it, they said they've been working on it with IT for the last couple weeks.

Then he basically said: "You're paranoid, I'm not a fan. I don't fuck with this weird shit. I don't need a wannabe detective all up in my business"

and blocked me.