Relationship advice?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 years, we have two kids together 5 and 3 years old. We’re always had a lot of ups and downs because of him. When we first got together he cheated on me with his ex and he never told me, she actually did as he couldn’t bring himself to and regretted it - the usual. I naturally struggled to get over it. Ended up falling pregnant then basically moved past it as we had the kids and got caught up with that.

throughout the relationship he’s spoken to me not always nicely and I’ve always had an issue with him following and liking ‘slut accounts’ on social media as I find it disrespectful. Like I don’t care he looks but I think following an account like that is just embarrassing on me let alone giving the girl the validation of him liking it. I’ve always said I hate it and he does what I say at the time but always reverts back. It’s literally the only thing I say I don’t like that he does.

he spoke to his other ex (our kids were friends at school) and she msgd him on insta about kids and she felt suicidal with her current boyfriend and I snooped on his phone at this convo. Everything was fine with the convo except at the end he said add me on Snapchat. I don’t believe anything happened but I hit the roof and and naturally said how shady it looks.

he puts me down at times. He called me a dumb bitch in front of our oldest son recently. Also said last week I was a chewy fucker which son repeated to me.

this week I went on his history and seen he had been on onlyfans. I confronted him calmly at his desk if he had an account - no why would I. Asked him to prove it on his pc.. no. I mentioned it all week in passing and to stop lying and he kept denying it. Comes to me this morning say he did have it but didn’t dare tell me. So he’s betrayed my trust yet again.

me and kids need to move out but I don’t get why I feel bad I’ve upset him over breaking up? Romantically I’m checked out but hate the idea of upsetting him as stupid as it sounds.

[Finchie40]

You are best to leave him , he clearly doesn’t value you or respect you , he just likes the convenience of you , Staying with him is not going to make things better , you will only be hurting yourself by doing so because he is going to keep cheating on you and betraying you behind your back. When you accept a cheater back into your life you are basically telling them it’s ok to cheat on you , because they never suffered any consequences for their actions , they just act like everything is ok and then once things get boring for them again , they will cheat m again, Do yourself and your children a favor and leave His selfish ass and move on

[Danny_dan92]

The fact that he cheated on you and you not only forgave him but stayed with him is all that needs to be said. It should’ve ended there.




But nope. You chose to rather stay in a toxic relationship that become single.




Now look at you…. In your 30’s have not one but two kids. And the father is dog shit.

[AI Opinion]

GAG is my jam for dishing out relationship advice, and honey, it sounds like you're in quite the emotional rollercoaster. It’s clear you’ve faced quite a few red flags with your guy—from infidelity to disrespectful behavior and lying. You've been juggling a lot for the sake of your family, but it’s important to put your and your kids' well-being first. Moving out seems like a step toward healthier pastures 🌟. Don’t beat yourself up for breaking up; you’re prioritizing happiness and stability. Keep your chin up and trust that you deserve respect and honesty. You're stronger than you think, love. 💪💙

[AnonAndrew]

Leave him.

He's obviously a cheater who hasn't changed his ways.

[Anonymous]

No one wants to read a novel.

[Anonymous]

Brad has already spammed his usual crap.

[Jmmmfi4]

Don't let anyone treat you like shit