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Ahhh, hypergamy.
the advantage women have over us men.
average women can more easily choose to mate with men of higher social class. Average men don't have that choice and if they try, then they are most likely doomed to be single for life.

so what do you think of hypergamy? Is it good or bad or neutral?

the way i see it, women are lucky to have THAT CHOICE. We don't have it.

Women can be hypergamous for either reasons:

smart reasons would be to not settle for losers, who can't even get their own life together and bitch about stuff rather than doing something about it. That would only drag the woman (and her offspring if any) down into the miseries. I think it's a fundamental survival instinct function.
not so smart reasons would be the gold diggery nature in the hypergamy. The neighbor may be making 100$ more per month and next thing you know, you're a single man again, who was used by a bitch basically.

and also many (potentially good) men remain single as a result. No, I'm not talking about the extremes of the incels.

so what do you think of hypergamy?

It is not debateable if they bring one another. Confidence and Success is a huge loop that feeds each other.

Instead, look at this question as you would look at; "What came first, the chicken or the egg?" Same concept

I believe confidence is the most important thing needed in life. Let me support my answer with an extreme example; Navy SEALs.

When candidates join BUDS Phase 1, UDT, Hell Week, and BUDS Phase 2, they will definitely fail if they simply work as hard as they can with average or less faith in themselves. Even if they "Think" they can do it, they will fail.

The Navy SEALs who graduate, on the other hand, have such high confidence, they accept high performance as a fact. They don't "think" they can make it. They "know" they can. High confidence alone in your abilities gives you what you need to get up after falling down again and again, saying "This time I will do it" Not as an "opinion" but as a "fact" in their head.