Search Results: understanding a guy

Why do girls have a hard time understanding boundaries in a relationship?

I hate to be judge mental but from my experiences with Girls’ Most girls’ are just plain out selfish and only really think of themselves, Like they want their partner to eliminate things that he enjoys in life to appease...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

I have autism and need help understanding what his doing and why?

So this guy and I were talking for 2 weeks. He then ghosted me after 3 weeks from my asking to hang out. Then reached out after the 3 weeks wanting to hang out. I politely declined. Then 2 months later his hanging around...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The issue is NOT boys vs girls. Real solutions must address the real problem: so let's address it.

I've read up a good bit on this site having never been a member myself - I have heard the countless woes of girls talking about the horrible guys they have had to deal with, and I have heard the countless stories of guys...

SimonClass

Xper 2 Age: 28

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How to choose between 3guys or does that signal you like noone?

Guy a 4 years youngerHad deep and meaningful discussions. asked me questionsGave eye contact even while driving on a Freeway Similar musical taste, understanding of mental illness. Had a constructive debate and got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The continuing weird discussion about masculinity. . .

Years ago, when I first joined GaG, I wanted to talk about relationships. I had hopes this was a place where I could find meaningful discussions on the issues men and women have with forming meaningful bonds. I was and...

RolandCuthbert

Editor Age: 54

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Is polyamory the solution to avoid heartbreak and deceit?

I believe that men cannot be faithful because they like a variety of women while secretly enjoying the benefits of a committed monogamous relationship. I have witnessed my uncles and brothers cheating on their wives/...

Cherrylicious

Yoda Age: 34

Girl's Behavior

How come some girls go after the guy who doesn't want them or entertain them much?

Literally half the college is after her and I have humbly declined her advances towards me several times yet she isn't apparently understanding it. What actually is the psychology behind such behaviour?

Passing_by

Xper 6 Age: 25

Guys and their texting of x rated content?

What is the deal with guys texting each other naked women performing x rated things? My boyfriend had his phone full of it, I told him how I felt and he deleted everything related to it. But he has friends who still text...

Blondy21

Xper 4 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Why did she tell to other people that I leaded her on?

I met a woman last year. We were dating, not having sex nor kissed, though. She suddenly confessed her feelings to me. I was very flattered to be honest. I am in a relationship with another woman, I want her a lot but she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy I’m dating meets up with ex girlfriend (because of her mental health), is this okay?

I started seeing this guy at my college he is my classmate and he asked me out first. So far he’s been so sweet/perfect and he told me a he had a friend from HS he sometimes hangs out with. But it wasn’t until I found out...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does this man have bad intentions?

A neighbor of mine that I have known for 6 years who has always tried to be helpful and talk to me since I moved into the complex. However for the past 6 years I always avoided or ignored him as I have been hurt in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m afraid to date a man I genuinely like a lot because he has kids. Any advice or opinions?

I used to be the kind of girl who believed in instant connection because I had fallen in love at first sight when I was 19 years old with a man who ended up playing me before I had even turned 21. That short relationship...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Did he really mean to break up?

Hi everyone! Happy New Year! So I was in a relationship with a guy for two years. In the first 9 months we had some problems basically because of me. I had some relationship OCD but got into therapy. He was understanding...

Anonymous

(30-35)

WHO Runs THISSS?

At times, dominance intimidates me . I know most girls don’t mind being submissive, but my first experience with a dominant man turned me away from ever wanting to submit to that path. I felt uncomfortable in a...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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Girls, How soon fast does a girl lose interest in a guy if he's not understanding that she's flirting with him?

If a girl likes a guy and is giving subtle hints but he just doesn't understand them, how soon do you throw in the towel and move on completely? Can you tell if he's just clueless vs not interested? I'm one of these guys...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I double text and explain that I’m bipolar?

I’ve been seeing this guy for a little over a year, I’ve learned that he’s not an affectionate person and has trust issues. I’ve asked him about him never asking me out properly and he said he just assumed that we were...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What’s going on in his head? I’m not understanding?

So back in June I asked my ex why him and I aren’t together. He said because he didn’t want that with anyone right now. Which this has always been a thing for him I don’t know if he’s afraid of commitment or what? In...

sd1223

Yoda Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Why does my female friend keep telling me “If I got a boyfriend I would stop talking to you”?

I know what she’s trying to say but the question is why? She’s a friend that I talk frequently. We’re just friends and I don’t have feelings for her. I’m not even attracted to her. And she knows this. But she’s said that...

Anonymous

(18-24)