Search Results: being a good girlfriend

How do I tell her I don't want to spend anymore money?

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and I normally I spend a lot of money on her (I didn't mind at first because I loved her very much), but times have changed a bit. Me and my girlfriend are...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

My brothers were telling me my friends are taking advantage of me and I should dump them. Should I leave them?

Warning: long rant. My brothers kept telling me those guys are no good and taking advantage of me but I’m too stubborn and naive to see it. So over the weekend my four friends and I went to the casino. They pushed me to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why does this make me want him even more?

I thought this guy was a little interested in me He’s very attentive towards me and has had convos with me before where’s he’s blushed and been awkward. He’s complimented the way I smelled and once I told him I was...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Is my girlfriend a low key hater?

I'm starting to believe my girlfriend is a hater. As funny as it sounds. Some examples, before we lived together I had my own apartment. It was small and not in the best area but it was mine. She once made reference of me...

Qwerty098765

Xper 4 Age: 34

What's the point in having a girlfriend?

what's the point in having a girlfriend? I am new to dating and I not sure what do with them or why is it good to have or not have one? I get sex and she look good and it give me something do. But I not sure what else to...

mattclark242

Xper 6 Age: 28

My boyfriend likes pictures of half naked girls on Instagram. I feel hurt by this and he doesn’t post any pics of us either. Is this okay?

I’ve brought up how I feel about not posting pics of us many times and he says he likes to keep his personal life private. When I brought up about liking other girl’s pics, he said that he doesn’t tell me not to like...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Why would a man feel nervous around me?

I don’t do anything to invade his space, I am just there, everyday I go to the office, I catch him touching his hair or adjusting himself as soon as he sees me when I go into the office, he’s naturally the first person...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

Is it really hard to win over an ex girlfriend when we messed up?

I heard from my good friend my ex girlfriend might come back and is willing to give it another chance, last one though. However, she's taking her time and is still hurt at this moment. I've failed her by being tardy on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I contact this girl from work who has left?

I have had a crush on her since last year and she left the company in September 2022. Even after this time i still like her but we aren't really in contact. I’m considering hitting her up. i think she knew i liked her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he secretly love me?

I been talking and going on dates with a guy for a month and a half. We have gotten pretty close and he has been always hinting at the idea of me being his girlfriend. Recently when we were on the phone saying good night...

Mhmmmalreadykno

Xper 5 Age: 23

Guy's Behavior

Is he being the office flirt or does he have genuine interest?

I’m kind of steering cautious of this guy. He’s one of the only men who work there and everyone at our job are women. I notice he’ll have no problem complimenting us which is fine and I think normal. He does have a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ex said she still has for ex?

My former girlfriend of over 8 months broke up with me recently. Yesterday we met to talk about things and she revealed that she wasn't over her ex, and she felt guilty about not being all in with me. Her last...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend may get sent back to her country and I am scared and not sure what to do?

I’ve been seeing her for 8-9 months and officially dating for 6. I love her and this is by far the happiest relationship I have ever been in. She is part of a program that has to move around a lot. I knew this going in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex wrote me a letter about our relationship and wants to be friends?

Me (M21) and my ex (F19) broke up 9 months ago. She was a great person but she wasn’t a good girlfriend, it lasted a year. I just got this letter from her friend saying it was from my ex. I just read the 2 pages and...

Clippers1Fan

Xper 3 Age: 24

Society & Politics

Why are guys so hostile/mean to innocent women?

I noticed that I have been seeing a lot of guys who seem really pissed off towards women and they start shit with innocent women for no reason at all. I'm assuming they're red pill guys, but I understand if they met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Partner broke up with me due to feeling like a bad partner due to summer depression. Help wanted?

My former girlfriend of over 8 months broke up with me about a week ago. She suffers from anxiety, and has a past of depression. After we started summer break she became depressed. My guess is she was missing her friends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girlfriend with anxiety and a past of depression broke up with me?

My ex broke up with me about a week ago. She suffers from anxiety and has had depression in the past. Her first and previous relationship wasn't abusive but was unhealthy. We were together for over 8 months. She struggled...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have a male coworker that has a girlfriend of almost 6 years. It’s clear that there is a connection. He’s confided in me at times. Does he like me?

I’ve been working at this school for a year now. I work with 3 other teachers, one of whom is a man. Early on to the start of the school year, it was very clear that the male teacher and I got along well. I also found out...

Anonymous

(30-35)