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He didn’t wish me for my birthday and I wasn’t invited to his surprise birthday party (organised by his best friend because the best friend doesn’t know me and the crush made up after an argument and apologised and we’re on good terms now)
Should I wish my crush for his birthday? Just saying “happy birthday :)”

A pronoun party is where a child announces to the world what they would like their pronouns to be. It's a great way of them getting the message out to a large number of friends and family.

But does every child need it's own personal pronoun party? Could you just combine them in to one big party where everyone announces their pronouns. There could even be an International holiday like Christmas where kids tell us what they are and remind us every year

Every parent knows birthday parties can run expensive, especially when your trying to keep up with the Jones. But individual parties make a child feel special and ensure the focus is on them. But we have to recognise times are tough so I see nothing wrong with families in a street all having their pronoun party in the church hall at the same time.

Thoughts

So I thought it was legit love. He talked of a future, etc. I didn't know he had visa issues till recently. Months after a bit of an issue between us.

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But when I asked for more than just meeting up to have sex he proceeded to.

He suggested we'd go to a movie & then went to his friend's birthday party without telling me. The day prior he'd suggested we'd do something that afternoon.

I ONLY got distressed / upset and maybe said things bluntly when it very much seemed he was only interested in sex. He was saying he wanted a future & yet his actions did not imply he was interested in anything other than sex.

Once he'd implied & once he said we'd do more - both times he bailed without telling me.

Since then his communication has been terrible at best and whenever he does communicate it's angry - because his visa issue is causing stress though I didn't know about this till recent. Or it's to either indirectly or directly in a way blame me for damaging our relationship when for weeks I'd been trying to mend things and he doesn't do jackshit (even text morning).

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The stupid thing is, is still do love him and yet it's like.

Even if he wasn't having an issue with visa his persona is not what he displayed at the start. It's actually sort of mean-spirited.