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Long story short, I am having trouble picking between two men that are both amazing but in very different ways. They are complete opposites and both having qualities I love. I met guy#1 several months ago and we both instantly felt an intense pull towards each other the moment we met. Our chemistry was out of this world. I had never felt that way about a man before. I was just drawn to him in every way possible. Unfortunately, I realized early on that we were not that compatible in terms of our lifestyle and personalities. He's very independent and career oriented where as I am extremely clingy and family oriented. He had also just gotten out of a relationship so he was not consistent or ready for anything serious and because of that, he ended things with me so I wouldn't waste time on him. Fast forward a few weeks, I met guy#2. This guy is everything I was looking for in a man. He is consistent, caring, emotionally available, clingy (just like me), and extremely family oriented and ready for something serious. The downside was that I did not feel that initial "out of this world" chemistry with him that I felt with guy#1 even though guy#2 is compatible with me in every way and everything I'm looking for in a partner. Guy#2 and I still have great chemistry, just not magical like it was with guy#1. Fast forward a few more weeks, guy#2 and I are getting pretty serious now and guy#1 suddenly enters my life again wanting a second chance. Time has gone by and he is now "ready" for more commitment. Who do I pick? The guy I can't stop thinking about but not sure I can see long term with or the guy that I can envision a stable future with but don't have intense chemistry with?

Technically he sent me the first like.

So I matched with this guy on Hinge & we talked for a while but he stopped answering after i called him "babe". After two weeks, I unmatched him because he never answered and also I noticed he added "looking for short term relationship" to his profile. & he was still super active on social media following a bunch of girls.

After I unmatched him, i saw he created a new Hinge profile. This time, his profile says 'looking for long term relationship, Christian, and want children'. So it was a bit bizarre. It seems to me he created the new prof so i could find him again or so that he could find me.

He hasn't sent me a like yet or anything so I am kinda confused about it. I am still kinda interested, not sure if i should send him a new like to re-match. Any thoughts?

I'll add that he is wearing sunglasses in all of his pictures except one.

If a guy in his early 30s met a woman who is 40 and had immense compatibility and match, would he be ok with the age difference for long term relationship/marriage?