Should I just cut this guy out of my life. He implies he wants a relationship but honestly I'm the only one putting in any effort?

[Anonymous]

He's very busy, I get that. It doesn't bother me. But he doesn't communicate well, etc. But it's getting to the point of I don't really care anymore. He speaks of having a long-term relationship, etc. and goes on about the money he'll be making but it's like if I can't have an actual engaging relationship what's the point. His income never attracted me it was the personality but even that's like whatever when I don't see the personality much it's whatever.

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I mean I suggested let's do something this weekend and he's like depends on the work, etc. I know he's not cheating but at the same time if we can't even have a weekend while in the initial stages of dating what the hell is serious dating or maybe even marriage going to be like.

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Twats saying where did he say he wanted a relationship - in text & verbally - you don't need to know everything as it's none of your fucking biz.

[Anonymous]

If you're still in the early stages of the relationship and he's not putting in any effort, I guarantee it will only get worse, not better.
Early on is the most important time to put in effort

It's not, "I'm waiting for things to settle down so I can focus on you"
Because things will never settle down. They never do

[Twalli]

By your question, he implies that he wants one, but hasn't said he does. Until he says he does, you can't know for sure. Also if he wants one, it doesn't mean he wants one with you.
The "twats" that ask questions are trying to help you. So they don't need to know everything, but they need to know more than just the bare minimum.

[Anonymous]

You're negative and so I'd say that's the first issue worth mending but you both don't know what you're doing. If I were you I'd stop dating and figure out what makes a good relationship and what makes a lasting relationship.

[strlb]

This is similar to another post. Definitely cut him out. If he's interested he'll make time but he's not. Leave his ass in the wind and find someone that will treat you right. Best of luck. DM always open