Back in November of last year I met this girl online and we really hit it off. About two months later she decided our distance from each other (I live eight hours away) was too much for her and it ended up being a bad break for the both of us. She cut contact with me but after a few months she drunkenly added me back when she had some personal issues come up in her life. So far this has happened four times this year where we will talk till old feeling come out and then she cuts contact till she adds me back a few months later.
During the most recent time she added me back I asked her what she wants from me. She claims that she only wants to be friends but calls me every time something major happens and wants to talk on the phone everyday for 3+ hours a day all while she is testing the waters with a new guy. She has said she's done this with two other guys in her life and they turned out to be good friends.
I really enjoy our time together and I still have strong feelings about her but I know I can't keep letting her in and out of my life.
Should I listen to my friends and completely ditch her?
