Search Results: insecurity

Advice please, just want to understand freaking out a little?

Guys can I please ask for your thoughts on this. I went on a few dates with this guy, we always made out lots and had a lot of chemistry. Last night we slept together, while having sex he stopped briefly and said he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, Declining sex life now what?

So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and when we started I was 75lbs bigger than I am now and we would have sex for hours on end and multiple times a week. Over the last 9 months or so it has...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What was this about?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I overreacting by calling my boyfriend a pathetically insecure man child?

I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. He has a lot of trust issues because his ex cheated on him with his friend. He constantly asks me if I'm cheating on him or not, tells me that I'm not allowed to have guy friends...

feat_anuuu

Xper 4 Age: 20

What can I do to improve myself?

Hi guys, so i’ve been dealing with insecurity for a long time and I don't know how to snap out of it. i freak out that my boyfriend is cheating on me whenever he doesn’t answer my phone calls. i feel like he has someone...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, what are things that make you feel like you’re not good enough for a woman?

A couple guys have told me that I deserve better and that they’re not good enough for me but I feel that’s bs. Because if they really felt that way they shouldn’t of tried talking to me to begin with. But some guys have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I respond back to him for misreading his message?

this guy and i were beginning to rekindle our friendship/relationship and I think i started to let my insecurities show a little bit and i think there were times he got annoyed. Anyway, Monday i went out to get bubble tea...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are you fine with men having insecurities?

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girl's Behavior

My friend is jealous I get hit on more?

I have a really attractive friend, I mean just beautiful-like she used to have over 100k followers on Instagram and constantly gets compliments when we’re out- But last night she drunkenly admitted that she’s jealous...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My own insecurities and relationship anxiety sabotaging me and my possible relationship with my partner. Not sure what to do?

Me and my partner have been having ups and downs since we started out 3 months back. We both really do love each other and the beginning was messy. After having some sort of issue and my inability to regulate my emotions...

confusedtea

Xper 4 Age: 22

Is it a sign of insecurity to attack a person of the opposite gender because they have high standards?

I think it is And not just insecurity. Because you can be insecure but not be rude. What made me ask this question was the videos I saw on instagram where men were asked for example if they would date a woman with...

marish01

Yoda Age: 36

My insecurity is ruining my relationship. How can I stop being so insecure?

I have trust issues (who doesn’t lol), but it’s definitely gone too far to the point where it’s harming my relationship. My boyfriend does have a history of lying and he has done some shady things in the past which...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Is shyness a sign of emotional weakness?

I’ve been told that women are attracted to emotional strength a man such as confidence, charm, charisma, ambition etc and women are turned off by emotional weakness such as insecurity, neediness, laziness, bad manners etc...

JamieRobinson1994

Xper 6 Age: 31

Left for a friend when it became a ldr? Is there something wrong with me? To want them back?

I will try to summarize, met online and the first date was on Valentine's and she showed up over 4 hours late and drunk (feel free to call me a dumbass for continuing) we started dating and it came to light she has bpd...

iamathrowaway

Xper 1 Age: 34

Is insecurity a turn off?

Sometimes, I have my insecurity moments in my relationship. She is my first real girlfriend at age 29. I am her first serious relationship too. She is 26. I am a software engineer, have my own place, and gaining financial...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Sometimes, I have my insecurity moments in my relationship. She is my first real girlfriend at age 29. I am her first serious relationship too. She is 26. I am a software engineer,

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