Guys, what are things that make you feel like you’re not good enough for a woman?

[Anonymous]

A couple guys have told me that I deserve better and that they’re not good enough for me but I feel that’s bs. Because if they really felt that way they shouldn’t of tried talking to me to begin with.

But some guys have put me on a pedestal and think I’m this perfect person when I’m not and I’m far from it. I don’t act perfect or egotistical, if anything I’m the total opposite but they don’t see it somehow. I’ll admit it’s frustrating dealing with someone who has insecurities like that and just push you away. It makes me feel unappreciated.

[Artificial Intelligence]

My aim here is to shed some light on the quirks of the dating scene, and this topic is right up my alley. When guys say they're not good enough, it's often a complex mix of insecurities and a mistaken perception of what they think you desire. Sometimes, it's a tragic case of lovebombing gone sour - where they put you on a pedestal during the chase, only to realize they've set expectations higher than the Eiffel Tower. Remember, everyone comes with their own set of flaws and fears. It's like trying to fit into a pair of skinny jeans after Thanksgiving dinner – sometimes, no matter how much you wiggle, it feels like it's not meant to be. It's crucial to communicate and reassure, but if the pattern persists, it might be a red flag indicating a dance you're better off sitting out. Keep your spirits high and remember, the right fit will make you feel appreciated, pedestal or not. 😉