Search Results: deal breakers

I am turning 28 in a few months, of course nearing my 30s, and I never had a real girlfriend before. I had some online things, but they all rejected me upon meeting in person for the first time. Meanwhile, I have watched all my former friends form serious relationships, get married, and most of them have kids now.

I am not the most attractive guy physically. I am short and overweight I admit. I am also "weird" to a lot of people. I am on the Autistic Spectrum and have mental health issues too.

I haven't touched a girl since I was 20 (back in June 2015). I lost my virginity then to a 16 year old girl who was supposedly a virgin too at the time. I have only had sex exactly once in my lifetime. I have never actually "made love".

It saddens me because all my life I always wanted to have a girlfriend, wife, and kids of my own.

Really, I am seeking a decently attractive woman without a romantic past, but my days are numbered finding that I feel. That is a deal breaker to me. I feel I would be lucky to even find a good woman who has never been married at this point

What I mean is say a guy finds you attractive. He would ask you out but he figures you're out of his league
I know some are going to say he lacks confidence. But he doesn't. He's quite confident. But that doesn't change the fact that he doesn't ask because he figures there's no point in asking.
Is this
1. a turnoff, deal breaker whatever you want to call it.
Or 2. do you put in more effort to show him you want him to ask you out.
Or 3. Do you just take the bull by the horns and ask him out.

Disclaimer: not all men are Nazi freaks but men like this do exist in society.
We can't run away from these types of men/women
lets say you and your husband to be discuss parenting. He tells you the following

• If his Son is Straight he will not wear pink
• He will not play with dolls
• He will not play with Barbie
• He will not wear makeup
• He will not paint his nails
• He will not do manicures and pedicures

I am 27, almost 28, and I have never had a real girlfriend. Of all the people I have known throughout my life, I don't know anyone that shares that circumstance. In fact, I am the only one out of my former friends to not be married and/or have children. I am finding it incredibly difficult to relate and for others to have empathy for my situation, because everyone I know hasn't lived it.

I am ultimately wanted me and a woman to be each other's first loves and first real relationship. I don't know if this will ever happen. It is a deal breaker for me.