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My boyfriend told me that because he grew up with his father, he is a difficult person to live with and he tries to be nothing like him (jealous, thinks he is always right, selfish, moody). He likes to control everybody's life, asking many questions about the simplest things, always trying to find the bad and negative things everywhere. My boyfriend is a very down to earth person he doesn't let anything get to him or destroy his mood and thats a characteristic that makes his father even angrier when he tries to argue with him about stuff that he doesn't agree with. Today I got upset because my boyfriend and his father were alone and they started talking about me, he was asking my boyfriend if he is truly happy with me, that he doesn't like how I speak with my boyfriend and I'm too rude and always look angry and mad with my boyfriend. My boyfriend defended me and said that I'm only rude or shout when he annoys me and that he likes annoying me and he is really happy with me and we are doing great, but his father continued saying that that's not what he sees and that I have to control myself and not be rude. I'll admit I'm not a saint I do get annoyed easily and I can speak in a higher tone with my boyfriend sometimes when he does annoying stuff and only when I speak louder does he listen, but that's something that my boyfriend knows about me and he doesn't get offended about it. Am I an asshole for feeling angry with his father, I don't like people getting involved In our relationship when we are doing so great and we didn't ask for any advice. I feel like his questions were not out of interest for my boyfriends future or out of love, I feel like he wanted to make my boyfriend feel that I'm not good enough, I don't know how to explain it.

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1. "When we looked back, we saw the light switch on and off."
One evening, we were sitting as a family and watching TV. All of a sudden, my German shepherd and terrier dogs pricked their ears and looked into the corridor behind us. The hallway light was off. I looked around the hallway but saw nothing. Even after 5 minutes, the dogs were still staring at the corridor and began to growl. My wife and I looked back and saw that the light switch had turned on and off. Both the dogs and we went crazy.'

—Noisyrussinator
It's the same scenario again."
A few weeks later. Same scenario again. The lights are off and we are watching a movie. My dog ​​loves to play with balls and there are balls all over the house. My dog ​​looked down the hall this time and wagged his tail. I swear a ball came down the aisle towards the dog. We all turned pale.'

—Noisyrussinator

2. "After this incident, the nightmares are over."
My mother-in-law has been having nightmares for a few weeks now, and in every nightmare she sees the house burning while we're all inside. When we woke up one morning, we smelled smoke from somewhere in the house. We noticed that the smoke was coming from the garage.

We saw the smoke coming from the fluorescent in the rafters. Probably burned out because the light was on all night. We all thought that a spirit was watching and protecting us. After this incident, my mother-in-law's nightmares came to an end.'

—Noisyrussinator

3. "Person, that's not you!"
We were having a heated conversation with a person I used to be close to. The conversation eventually turned into a passive-aggressive discussion. Then he got in the car and left. It came back when I got home. But his tone and appearance were different. He started saying things he would never say. I said, 'Person, that's not you!' I said. What he said to me was: 'You think I'm Person?'

—brierpatchkid