What does it mean when a guy says this?

[Anonymous]

I’m in a pottery class on Saturdays. I signed up for fun. My instructor is nice. I think there may be a little attraction but I’m not sure.

he does look at me quite a bit. No matter where I am.. he was helping some other people out and while he was helping he was looking over at me (not my work) then he came over and said “I finally get to come over to you. How are you? In a smooth tone.

one time he was demonstrating something with my finger but he softly put his hand on mine while doing so…

does this mean anything.

[JPresidente]

It's probably a flirting technique but would need to know more to know for sure.

[Asker]

It’s not much more bc we are in a professional setting. He’s probably just a freak or something
(Like wants sex) or I don't know

It doesn’t feel sexual it was light and gentle.

I do notice that when I’m talking to another guy he always looks up or looks at me or him. Might not mean much but I notice it

He does stand right next to me. He stands across with other people

[JPresidente]

Sounds like he is attracted to you.

[Asker]

He might just be a flirt.

[JPresidente]

Possibly yes. 👍

[Asker]

How would Ik the difference

[JPresidente]

Flirting to me is back and forth banter between two people with some eye contact and maybe light touching. Attraction would be him staring, following you around the room, constantly wanting to be near you and some additional touching. Would included compliments about how you look and asking personal questions maybe a dirty joke or two.

[Asker]

A dirty joke would def fall under flirting since flirting is more sexual chemistry /physical?

He’s never complimented me tho. It’s weird bc one time I dressed up for my bday that day I had class.. he looked then looked down.. like the energy changed and he was kind of avoiding me vs other days I’m dressed down

[JPresidente]

Yep. Dirty joke could go either way. To help me understand, what does he look like and what do you look like? Brief description is fine.

[Asker]

He’s mex- American

I’m African American

He’s attracted to Afro women

But I’m avg in looks. Nice boobs, clear skin and a nice smile

[JPresidente]

Gotcha. Is he married? How old is he?

[Asker]

32 not married

I’m 25

[JPresidente]

Do you ever catch him looking at you? Does he hold long eye contact?

[Asker]

Yesss! That’s honestly like the first thing I noticed before I ever started to notice him. No matter where I am in the room, if he’s passing by or even across the room. Soon as a enter the room. He’s always looking/ glancing. But no I never catch him staring just a lot of glances. And smiles but he’s naturally a smiler

[JPresidente]

Does he look at your chest? If there is sexual attraction he will look at your boobs and butt. Maybe a stealth look.

[Asker]

No he never looks at my chest or anything. Just at my face

Nothing inappropriate

[JPresidente]

My best guess is that he is attracted to you and interested but too early to say beyond that. 🤷‍♂️

[Asker]

Yeah maybe

But now he’s talking to a beautiful model and he kind of avoids me now lol

[JPresidente]

Bummer. Sorry to hear that

[Asker]

One more thing…

Why is he avoiding me then? Does that mean that there was “something” or was it nothing to begin with.. I’m confused

Especially if nothing ever happened between us. I don’t have his number or anything

[Asker]

And what makes it worse is that she looks nothing like me… she’s white with blue eyes and maybe blonde hair… she’s very skinny but most models are.

But she modeled for a big company and she has a nice personality. I can see why he chose her. I’m the opposite

[JPresidente]

He probably thinks that his actions led you to believe he had some level of attraction and since now another female has entered the picture he is avoiding you and focusing on her to keep you from assuming he likes you.

[Asker]

So you’re saying he probably really wasn’t attracted to me or he led me on or he didn’t?

[JPresidente]

He probably did and does find you attractive but his attention has been shifted. I don’t think he led you on.

[Asker]

I guess that’s a good thing bc then Ik he’s not a cheater or he just loves her prob

She def love him bc she post him more than he does of her. But I’m sure he will

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he has a crush on you.

[Asker]

Really?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I think so.

[Asker]

Oh okay

I think he’s talking to someone else now and he kind of avoids me now

[In_Trance]

means nothing

[Asker]

How?

[In_Trance]

How?
You asked in your initial question if this means nothing so you know exactly how

[Asker]

I mean it just sounds like it to me but okay. Thnx