What does it mean when a guy says...

[victoria0523]

What does it mean when a guy says "when I get with you, make me come back?" Does this mean that all he wants is something sexual or is he talking about a relationship? This guy and I are talking and have gone on several dates and we talk everyday and he messaged me last night and said good night baby. And today I got this message that said when I get with you, make me come back and I asked him and he said think about it. So guys what does it really mean?

[AlekNovy]

Depends on the guy.

If he's a playa it's a game, and it means "give me great sex, so you keep me"

If he's a good guy, it means "Give me a deeper reason to stay, and prove you're worth for more than a relationship"

Honestly, it sounds like game-playin to me, but I don't know the guy in person or anything, so just guessin.

===Anyway,===

don't over analyze some silly text-message. Communicate with him in person, and communicate who you are, what you expect, and ask if he's capable of what you want. It takes confidence yeah, but confident girls get what they want.

[wraite]

Sounds like he,s not sure about you as if he,s trying find some emotional bond with you or there could be another woman he,s involved with trying find out who he wants to be with.

[Mellene]

It depends on what you do on your dates, and how well you know him and he knows you.

Do you meet only for sex? If not than what this guy means is he is attracted to you and

wants to see you more because there is something about you that makes him want to go

on the next date with you. That something might be your personality, your looks or both.

Give it more time now so you can understand what are his intentions =]

[victoria0523]

The dates we have been on were dates to chucky cheese with my 2 kiddos.. we have never done anything sexual..

[Mellene]

That he is definitely interested in you as a person which is great. It also could mean he tried to

tell you he likes you but didn't dare to tell it as it is so he made up a phrase "when I get with you, make me come back"