Search Results: i want him to be honest with me

I daydream and think about romance a lot and having that one person that is my partner in crime forever. I have no interest in being with multiple women. But I find most people just want something temporary or non-serious. Is this hopeless and I'm being unrealistic?

you tell no one at all that you want this certain thing, no one. you've not spoken it, not made posts about it, not left hints about it around the house, nothing. you ask God for it, not even sure if there's a God who hears you, or cares. in days, someone who literally never gets you gifts, ever, says they felt strongly they needed to get something for you... and its what you asked God for. I get most here prob don't believe in God, but... even if u don't, my question is.. and be honest... wouldn't even a speck of you be like... umm... ok... maybe he's real an cares... thanks.

For example, a dark skinned girl asks, "do you like dark-skinned girls?"

Or a Chinese girl asks, "do you like Chinese girls?"

When it comes to ethnicity/skin tone, I always say that I really don't care. If I find her physically attractive and she has an amazing personality, I wouldn't be able to say no. This is the complete truth, but I'm wondering if she'd rather hear, "yes, I love dark-skinned girls" or "Chinese girls"

Or if a tall girl asks, "do you like tall girls?"

For this one though I'd answer a bit differently. I'd still be being honest but I think height is an interesting one because the vast majority of guys prefer shorter, and women usually are a good amount shorter, so it really is just the normal thing. However some are clearly in different circumstances.

I'd be very genuine by saying something like "I usually prefer shorter girls but if she looks good and has an amazing personality, how can I say no?" Do you think she'd rather hear "yes I love tall girls"?

For those who are unaware, I just want to point out that these examples illustrate the differences between male and female perspective on dating. Men might have strong preferences but women are more likely to have strict requirements for measurable standards such as height.

Some other examples:

"do you like thick girls?"

"Do you like girls with small boobs?"