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As a lifelong single individual and a 45-year-old virgin, I've encountered repeated rejection and struggled to connect with potential partners throughout my life.

I'm genuinely interested in your perspective on what makes a person attractive or interesting. Given my unique situation, as someone who has been single for my entire life, what qualities stand out to you?

Confidence is an area I'm actively working on, and I'd love your insights. At my age, how can someone like me build confidence? How does confidence manifest itself to you?

As a soft-spoken, kind, humorous, and sincere individual, who smiles and laughs quiet a bit. What kind of approach makes you feel genuinely interested and respected? Are there specific conversation cues that capture your attention?

Considering my experiences, I'd appreciate your thoughts on body language. What kind of body language is appealing to you? Are there gestures or postures that make someone stand out positively?

Despite my efforts to expand my social circles by attending church and the gym, rejection has been a recurring theme. Which by the way, I'm 6.5, brown hair and in shape.

Online dating has been part of my journey as well. For this, It's endless scrolling, sending likes but getting absolutely nothing in return. What are your perspectives on creating an appealing online dating profile? What kind of information stands out to you? I make sure to post pictures of myself smiling and doing stuff I enjoy as well as put thought into the about me section.

I'm extending an invitation for an ongoing conversation. Your guidance and coaching could be instrumental in helping me navigate through this journey, overcome rejection, and build the confidence needed to form lasting connections. I'm open to your wisdom and look forward to the opportunity to learn and grow with your support.

All my life, i was a shy and a little socially anxious guy. And never had a girlfriend. For the last 2 years, i started to work in the hotels, at the front desk.

A few weeks ago, this tunusian chick came to the hotel as a customer, she was smiling at me. She was educated, smart and cute. Wanted to join me when i was eating some chips and drinking coke.

Then another day we were drinking alcohol in the sea/beach's shaking bridge together, she hugged and kissed me a little. And i kissed her too. It was like a dream night to me.

Then i started touching her in a sexual way , she smiled and was not angry but she said we are just friends and she is a Virgin and i should stop. And all of a sudden i stopped because this is an important word to me.

Anyway we have spent 8 hours together in that night. This was a first to me. I was so happy. But maybe instead of waiting for my chance from women, i should chase my luck and approach people.

I am not a bad looking guy. I can make good jokes, i can talk in a lot of topics, but for some reason, i was never great with women and as a guy, i was always unhappy.

There is this young woman in my young adult singles church group named Lindsey. She is a short, petite girl. She is in school studying to become a Physician's Assistant (PA) and has one year left to go until graduation. She is the shy type, and when I see her at church events, she is usually with a group of other girls. I would say she is in her mid 20s, or at least approaching her mid 20s.

Do you think she has ever had a boyfriend before? Also, do you think she is probably a virgin too?