How to find and approach a woman?

[Anonymous]

I’m 32 years old Pakistani male, I recently moved to London for work in IT. I’m a virgin, 6ft, 79Kgs and recently joined the gym to get in shape after covid.

I was trying my best to find a woman. Previously my focus was to build a house for my family so I didn’t wanted to break someone heart and now I want to focus on my personal life but it’s seem like it’s late or something. I tried Bumble and Hinge, I got three decent match but one rejected me because there was no vibe and other two asked my body count which I ignore by saying I’m preserving myself for the one and I have less experience because my priorities were different and they just talked out and vanished.

I don’t want to end up in an arrange marriage with a stranger. It feels like everything happens late in my life.

Should I book a dating coach or something? It feel very lonely and desperate because I don’t have friends and I sucks at making friends because of poor verbal skills and not being a social butterfly.

[Avicenna]

I can understand that you don't want an arranged marriage, but wouldn't there be tons of women from your ethnic group in back Pakistan (or maybe even in London) who would be interested in marrying you?

[boobliker]

first take the old out and you just may find some one

[Hinaaaaa]

Maybe trying your own ethnicity will be good... There will be lots of things to talk about as well...

[In_Trance]

Go outside