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Search Results: attracted to a guy
I’m 18 and he’s 35 — is that too big of an age gap to date?
I’m 18. I saw this cute guy on a dating app and we matched, but I’m not sure if he’s too old or not. I know a lot of people would probably respond “date somebody your own age”, but I’m not attracted to people my own age I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Girls, have YOU ever rejected a guy because in your mind you felt he was too feminine and not masculine enough?
Like there was something about them whether its the way they talk, walk around, carry themselves, certain actions, whatever it was they just seemed too feminine to you and weren't attracted because of that?
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
Could a white man be attracted to a black woman but wouldn’t date her because of his family/ friends?
What if a white guy finds a black woman interesting and he’s intrigued by her but can’t “take it there”… out of fear or status so he sticks to white women
Anonymous
(25-29) How are these men attracted to me when I’m not their usual type?
3 guys have married/ committed to are blonde white women and they mostly follow white women with blonde hair/ skinny…. I’m the opposite a tad thick, different complexion … they don’t even follow women that look like me on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why did this guy ditch our first date like that and should I feel embarrassed?
So I ended up going out with the guy I made a post about yesterday. This man has been begging me for a date so I decided to go. I canceled on him yesterday cause he was too last minute, when it came to the details. So i...
Anonymous
(25-29) Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women
Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...
What should I wear out tonight if it’s very cold but I want to look attractive?
My guy friend said that if I want to attract men, I should wear a dress with pantyhose and my puffer jacket. On the one hand, I know I look better in a dress and pantyhose than in trousers and a bulky multicoloured...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 She says she prefers dark‑skinned guys but still compliments me—mixed signals or hiding interest?
I’m trying to decode a girl’s behavior. Here is the timeline: The Indirect: She mentioned that she likes light-colored eyes (I’m the only one in our group with light eyes, so it felt pointed). The Validation: She...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do women know what they want?
To be honest I'm kinda hoping all women on here debate this but there's a theory that when seeking for a partner women say and claim they want what everyone would agree are healthy things for relationships but they go for...
Anonymous
(25-29) What Nationality Are You, And What Nationality of the Opposite Sex Are You Most Attracted To?
I am white American (Dutch and Heinz 57). I'm mostly attracted to white Americans, Italian American, and Greek American guys.
Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?
I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Did I just get played?
I am very lonely and have no one. No friends, no family, live in a city where its hard as hell to date. So I went on a dating app, very cute guy messaged me. We texted for 2 weeks, we got to know each other very well. By...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I attract men my own age when I look much younger than 38?
I don’t look my age and guys in their twenties hit on me a fair bit, rather than men my own age. I’m turning 38 this year and I want more older men to notice me. Not those who are much younger (more than 5 years younger)....
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Why am I more attracted to naughty guys than polite, nice guys?
I’m always into naughty boys growing up. They are more fun, adventurous, and risk taker. I grew up with my church youth, so I have known plenty of polite boys. Nothing is wrong with them, but I prefer a little naughtiness...
TheLovelyWoman
Xper 6 Age: 42 Does true attraction disappear once you find out someone is taken?
There was a guy I used to think was a gorgeous 10 out of 10, then I learned he was taken, and now he looks like an ugly 1 out of 10 to me. I believe a normal person is wired to lose attraction to people they have no...
Do people actually chase you more when you stop being so nice?
I have this sensitive and sweet side of mine and I do attract people easily but I feel like things don’t deepen much when I am showing that side. On the other hand, I have kind of feisty and blunt and detached and...
How can I shoot my shot with this guy without making it awkward?
There’s a man in my city that I have on social media. We held a few convos over IG over the last year. I’m a direct person so I want to say let’s hangout or something but as a woman, being that direct can throw a man off....
Anonymous
(25-29) Do guys actually care more about personality than appearance?
When I was the prettiest I had ever been, I would get approached once every 4 years. When I was the ugliest I had ever been, I would get approached 5 times a month, because I was more confident and intelligent when I got...
Is dating a younger guy in my late 20s worth the risk?
Would you date a younger guy? Any experiences with dating a man 4-6 years younger than you in your 20s under CERTAIN CONDITIONS. I am absolutely NOT attracted to younger men and I turn down men 2 years younger than me…...
Anonymous
(25-29) 