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Father's often try to instill on their daughters negative trait of men to avoid and stare toward a guy that will treat them right in relationship. Father's will even go full on protection and intimidate a girl's boyfriend/husband to make sure he does not hurt her emotionally and physically.

Yet many mother don't seem to give their son the same advice to avoid being in relationship with manipulative women. Many mother still give their son blue pill advice like working hard and marrying a woman in her 30's. Many mother still try to teach their son to be chivalrous white knights who give girls gifts/presents without asking for anything in return. Many often try to shape their husband to be gentlemen who take girls out on dates (which he pays for).

Do you think mother's betray their sons when it comes to arming them against dating the opposite sex?

In general I feel men are pressured by society to NOT speak their minds about the issues they have about women publicly. If you don’t believe me then just see how often women post openly on social media about their relationship anger, frustrations, heartbreak, “sexism”, etc vs. how often men do it. However internally men feel all the exact same negative emotions but we are trained not to express them. It’s one of the reasons you see guys writing and posting more on GAG. The anonymity gives us a safer place to ventilate.

There are a few reasons why men are more restrained. Part of it is due to some of us being raised to be chivalrous to women. Unfortunately some women see this as weakness and take advantage of guys who instinctively treat women well. Also feminist propaganda says that a man expressing anger (verbally) is “threatening” and “words can be violence”. When it comes to heartbreak we get far less leeway to look like “bitches”. We train ourselves not to cry.

But seriously if men were allowed to speak their minds (including anger) it would actually be a safer way to ventilate. There would be less REAL violence, less depression, less substance abuse, etc. Just because a guy is pissed off it doesn’t mean he doesn’t have self restraint to not take things over the line.