I was raised that is what a man does. I do not find it a burden and don't only do it for the ladies. If a guy is coming into a store at the same time as me I will often open the door and let them pass through first. I have found more often than not the person will hold the next set of doors for me. Same with a checkout line. If I see a person with one thing behind me and my full cart I will let them go ahead of me. The world needs a little kindness once in a while
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We have or are working towards equality now, I have never done most of the things you mention and frankly that sounds like ridiculous scenarios which only happen films.
I do of course hold the door open when appropriate but i do this regardless of gender and expect and recieve the same treatment from both genders, its about timing and the logistics of who is going where, not genitals.
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The act of being chivalrous is not a burden, but women's responses to it. Every guy has handfuls of experiences with trying to be chivalrous and then getting absolutely chewed out by women for their efforts.
I’m not a rude asshole, but I don’t go out of my way to help people usually. As long as they’re in that “it’s okay to hold the door for me” range. Some people be holding a door for 20 seconds that’s too long , they have to be mediumly close
I am always chivalrous, like to an extreme degree, as in harming myself if it comes to it
but only when I feel like I am not being used, and not only concerning women but also men, I just rush to helpI don't think women respect men that do stuff like that.
Plus women take advantage of nice guys. I've seen it happen.
Women like fuckboys asshole men. Aka bad boysB. Never. I love holding doors open for girls, even if they don't say thank you. :)
I dont like following sterotypes if a girl wants to open the door by herself then let her do that
Feminism killed any reason for chivalry.
It’s not a burden.
Some people are nice
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