Search Results: best way to break-up

Girls, if a guy is kind of abusive in a relationship, is it better for her if he leaves or if she does the step of letting him go?

She might have had her reasons why she broke up with him. But when she said (she told this story another guy by the way) that the next day she didn't feel better, I wondered what that guy did that made her break up with...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

He’s stopped replying to my texts?

I’ll try and cut a long story short. I started working at my current employment about 3 years ago. One colleague in particular I got on really well with, however, he’s lovely to everyone. We had a flirty relationship and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I don’t understand why he doesn’t want a relationship with me?

I’ve (27) known this guy (28) for over a year now. We briefly dated and then he ended things saying he didn’t have the time and that we could try again when things were easier for him. We never officially “tried” a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My ex broke up with me 4 years ago and it has been almost 3 years I've talked/seen her, why does she all of a sudden want to meet & talk to me, HELP?

So my best friend and my ex's bestfriend go to the same college and her bestfriend started talking to my best friend about me, she eventually did say that my ex wants to meet and talk to me while all these years she...

Lonerup

Xper 3 Age: 23

Boyfriend broke up with me to focus on his business. Isn’t that counterproductive?

So last night, my boyfriend of nearly 4 years broke up with me because “our life paths are different, he wants to focus on his business and feels that I’m weighing him down.” He tried breaking up with me before in January...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can a breakup ruin you for good? How one can cope with that kind of pain?

A little context. It's been almost 6 months since I broke up with my boyfriend! We've been together for a little over a year, and I was totally head over heels with him. He was funny, attentive, always keeping me on my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

What’s the best way to get over a friendship breakup?

I had a friend for 10+ years and no longer wants to be friends with me anymore with no reason they wouldn’t tell me why other then we’ve changed? Nothing was different

panda2712

Xper 5 Age: 25

Should I ask my ex if he still loves me? What do I do?

My ex and Ibroke up about 2.5 years ago after a year-long relationship. Since then he's initiated sporadic contact, often when drinking, expressing affection but being distant when sober. Recently, he reached out with...

Lissyyluu33

Xper 3 Age: 33

Dating

Im falling in love with my best friend while dating my boyfriend. What do I do?

I’ve been with my boyfriend long distance for 1 1/2 years, and I’ve loved him through all of it, but I’m starting to feel like we are no longer fit into each-others lives. He wants to stay in CO and pursue career until 10...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Is there an age that is to young to fall in love?

I'm dating the love of my life and I know it. But, there are tons of people that are telling me that it is fake or not going to last. I have liked my boyfriend and only my boyfriend for as long as I can remember. He is...

bulldog617

Xper 1 Age: 19

What makes someone attract competitive partners?

As I was reflecting on my past relationships, I realised that two of the major relationships in my life were with men who were very competitive. I'm very modest in the sense that I have a small studio, I don't own...

BlackCat999

Xper 3 Age: 31

What is the silliest/dumbest grounds for breakup rule you’ve heard?

I’ll go first. My boyfriend’s rule is if I ever tell anyone (my best friend/any family members) his middle name, he’ll break up with me. His middle name has been a secret since HS and he wants it to stay that way even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is the best way for a guy with autism to find friends or a social network after a relationship end?

I know a lot of people have been annoyed lately with how many posts I have made either connecting to my autism or breakup or both. Sometimes I just need to talk things through cause that relationship was all I had in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Maybe a stupid question, but… is it weird to send and receive night messages from an ex every single night?

Well, my (ex) boyfriend decided he wanted to end our one year relationship a little over a month ago, still we agreed to continue as best friends, which I’m extremely thankful for! Ever since the breakup, we’ve been...

Banankaka04

Xper 1 Age: 21

Anyone else have had a mutual breakup?

Just had a mutual breakup. I am so heartbroken. Together for almost 2 years but we decided it was best to go our separate ways due to the distance between us. It's been nearly a month now, and have no idea what to do...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I stopped talking to my guy best friend after his breakup?

We've been friends for a couple years and only met once in person, but we talked all the time and called each other a lot. I knew he had a thing for me but I made sure never to give him and reason to think I did for him....

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have no idea what we are to each other and am too scared to ask. Should I ask?

TLDR: Friends of opposite genders, way too close to be considered normal friends and confusion as to if it’s still just a friendship. I (M) have been friends with my best friend (F) for just under a year. When I first...

BlazingLemon

Xper 2 Age: 19

Has Anyone Had to Deal With an Unpleasant Baby Daddy/Momma Whne you Want Civility?

My ex and I broke up over a month ago after being together for 4 years. We have an almost 2 year old together and were living together for just as long. For about a year our relationship was very rocky and he was...

Anonymous

(18-24)