Search Results: cold shoulder

What's your hate language?

If there are love languages, there must be hate languages? Are they the opposite of love languages? Words of discouragement? Physical punch? Acts of sabotage? Cold shoulder time? Compensation demanding?

chilldude33

Xper 6 Age: 30

Why’d she ghost?

Hi, I’ve never posted on one of these things before but I'm confused why this one girl, lets call her V, has acted the way she has. V and I are in the same class. At first I didn’t want to mess around with anyone from...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do most black girls act like this?

Yesterday I want to my cousin's house for Thanksgiving and he had a couple of good friends over there was a beautiful black girl that was there. Her friend says she is single but when I try to mingle she gives me cold...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Why do people avoid me since I’ve lost my mother?

Ever since my mom passed away, most people avoided me. I mean come on. The people said they will be there for me disappeared. I’ve lost friends because they didn’t want a “miserable bitch” around them. I don’t always talk...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why are some guys so enamored with chicks that are obviously playing them, and allow them to control their dating lives?

This is something I've always wondered. I was hoping it ends after high school, but nope. Exhibit A: A guy, let's call him P, is longtime friends with a girl. Let's call her R. It's very clear that P is enamored by R, and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How are you supposed to act around an ex who is in your friend group?

I ended things with her, but I was hoping we could still be friends. She has blocked me on everything and she doesn’t hang out with our friend group as much (and I feel like it’s because she’s trying to avoid me). When I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How do you deal with a district backing a bus driver that’s making my kids bus ride a living hell?

She’s written them up multiple times for very stupid things one day she threw a fit over a window. She said “why did you open that window, do you need the window open, why don’t you put it up” and my son did put the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would a girl wish you happy birthday and react to your FB posts but not answer a message you sent her?

Women are very weird creatures... they call you "love", talk on the phone, lead you on, then go silent, cold shoulder act cold like I was some stranger and then call you friend? Yet she leaves me a nice birthday wish on...

LadiesFavoriteToy

Xper 7 Age: 23

Is it ok to bring something up and apologize for it even though it happened months ago?

But you still feel guilty for it? or actually feel even more guilty? I had a really good connection with one of my coworkers but I suddenly switched my behavior towards him and gave him cold shoulder because I've started...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Education & Career

Signs you’re about to be fired

Employers many times don’t want to pay unemployment as well as want time to find someone to replace you. So they will try to push people out the door so they don’t have to. There are many reasons why a employer would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Guys, Is this typical male behavior?

So my boyfriend and I have a pretty good relationship, however the other day I noticed a pattern in his behavior at times. Somedays when I've already been gone all day at work and I come home he just sits on the couch,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What kind of relationship does my ex coworker want with me?

We worked together 8months. He tried hard to befriend me and he is easy to get along With. I noticed he would tease me, never compliment me or slight touch, but tease a lot and always start convo when he saw me, as well...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why is my ex insisting on being friends?

My ex dumped me back in June and is now dating the woman he told me “not to worry about because they are just friends”. I never begged him to stay because honestly I had a gut feeling that he was going to break up with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

The guy I was seeing rejected me but insists on being friends. Why does he want to be friends so badly?

Despite begging me to hang out him for all most half a year, he told me that he didn’t think we were compatible for a relationship but would like to remain friends. When he said that he wanted to remain friends, I thought...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does my coworker ignore me?

My coworker ignores me from time to time, especially around other colleagues/friends, like responding with one word answers in a very unenthusiastic/passive aggressive tone, which he doesn’t do with anyone else. However,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Confused and hurt by former work colleague’s mixed signals - Seeking unbiased perspectives and insights?

The situation with my [23] manager [31] was confusing & deeply distressing. When I was first hired, out of all of the other new employees, they showed immediate interest in me, giving me special attention, even during...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did I misunderstand someone’s intentions or was I treated unfairly?

From my perspective, the situation with my (23 at the time) former manager (31 at the time) was complex and distressing. When I started working with them in 2019, they seemed genuinely interested, giving me a lot of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Why does neck shoulders and back feel like pins and needles?

I've been lifting Recall boxes filled with Codafiles full of paper for my job since August last year. On and off I've had neck, back shoulder pain, this is the worst it's been. The bacl left side of my neck feels like...

Anonymous

(36-45)