Search Results: do people have the right not to be judged

Hi all,

We went to a ball over Christmas it went well, she wanted to take some photos with me no matter what with the professional camera, and then put the casual ones we took together on her Whats App story, I'm friends with her friends cause she introduced me to them

She invited me out to places such as her church; I'm not that religious myself, but I went there to spend some time with her. Her walking me back to the station and us having 1 and 1 time with each other occasionally. She even offered to buy the ticket for me several times

Had a call with a girl that I've been taking to (we have been texting everyday, not all day). She wanted to call me, the conversation was about 40 mins, this happened 2 times. Wanted to know more about me but I'm a terrible judge of knowing if she is just being friendly or if she is interested romantically

Right now we are texting and I told her a situation that I'm in thats personal and she said that "whatever situation your in, I'm all ears" she has been replying slowly the past 2 days (under a day), but yesterday she sent me 24 separate messages.

people are like girls are always are on thier phones but she responds on the group chat to people but replies to me later.

I asked her out on a date over phone and she said she was thinking of bowling but she used the famous "I'll let you know" so that's out me on edge, she is also doing masters right now which might take her time. Any thoughts?

On Halloween night I hit up a kava bar that I like to frequent. I’m not an alcoholic but I’ve really stayed away from booze in the last few years just for health reasons. The place is meant for recovery.

While I went to order a kava drink I noticed that bartender was dressed in a provocative sexy nurse uniform costume. She was showing cleavage.

I was acquaintances with this girl. Knew her first name. We had briefly friendly conversations in the past. She is cute but I never hit on her. I was always respectful. I am guessing she’s in her mid 20s.

Anyway my eyes instinctively glanced at her body and when I realized I was staring I quickly turned away. Again she was dressed provocatively.

Despite catching myself it was too late. She noticed that I noticed and she didn’t like it. She then gave me gave me the “don’t stare at me you creep” look.

And that really pissed me off. Of course I never did nor ever will say anything stupid. My eyes instinctively noticed for a good second but it’s not like I kept on staring. I didn’t indulge the thought. What right does she have to judge me given she fricken dressed up that way to get noticed to begin with?

Anyway I can’t control how people are going to think. But this is a major hypocrisy I see in women. They dress provocatively expecting to only get attention from where they want it vs. naively expecting not get noticed from where they don’t.

Hate that.

Not saying you can’t care about both. But what’s more important for you?

The economy and hyperinflation impacts everybody. It especially impacts the working class and minorities who are struggling just to get by day by day.

Sure some people are more fortunate than others. If you are high income earner and/or were given raises that matched inflation then you could care less about this. Some people are financially supported by others and don’t have to worry about paying rent, mortgage, putting food on the table, etc. So maybe this hasn’t hurt you but you would have to be blind and/or very arrogant to see how bad things have gotten inflation wise in the last 4 years.

Abortion is a sticky topic. I am not going to judge any woman on her who had a past abortion or plans on getting one.

But I just have to ask is having an unplanned pregnancy some sort of an inevitable event for women? Is it just 100% unavoidable that this is going to happen to you?

You want to have sex, fine. I also know that no contraceptive is 100% reliable. But really if you and your partner are responsible the chances of having an accident are very low nowadays. Not impossible but not likely.

I just don’t understand why abortion is such a huge deal given the problem can be avoided in the place if you are a responsible adult.

Anyway I plan on getting some long rants and angry responses on the second part of what I said above. But just saying.