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So this question came to my mind while answering @date_a_snob question:
Are you a girly girl or a tomboy? ↗

Often some typical personality traits are a contrast to each other, and most of the time they are. In some cases a part of each clashing personality can be combined in one person. I think you can find traces of this in every person but how extreme do you think they clash within you?
It can be more of a thing between different times, different friend groups, or are you just able to adapt to situations.
Examples of this could be a 'girly girl', who also is an outdoorsy person, not shy to work in the garden or even woods. An obviously logical person that for the right topics can get super emotional. A person always tries to be the focal point of a party but when in private acts caring and selfless.
Just random quick examples and under the right circumstances not clashing at all. Depending on the person they can seem completely non fitting. Sometimes you may even realize that yourself.

This whole thing is based on stereotypes. Voting yourself higher is not a negative thing to do, and maybe just be, because you know yourself better than others. It can also be the case, that others have told you without you seeing it in yourself.
This is all feeling based and even if others told you it doesn't mean they are 100% correct.
Keep in mind a person can NOT be 'wrong' because of this!!!
Clashes if handled well can lead to new bridges being built between other groups of people.

For the past couple of months I've been having some friendly contact with a guy. Although he sometimes seems to be keeping his distance, he is contrarily the one to keep the conversation going and shows interest in my life. Even after the parking lot has gone empty, we often still remain a little while longer to talk.

Last night, we were hanging out at the gym and while I was talking to him, he suddenly grabbed onto the punching bag hanging beside us, and started dry-humping it. It caught me off guard, and he could clearly see the surprise on my face. We laughed about it then he jokingly mentioned he could see the surprise in my eyes.

Right afterwards, while we were still in our conversation, he started taking off his shirt, then changed into different clothes. Although I have seen more men changing while in conversation, it was very odd to me he'd do this right after he had his little... moment with the punching bag.

When we left, he mentioned he thought of me as an odd person. Then joked about being odd himself. Asked for my age and was surprised to learn I was younger than he'd imagined.

Thing is, what surprised me most by these acts and interactions is that this man is in a relationship and I do not have the sense that he is in any way interested or attracted to me. Would it be an extreme level of comfort or should I be a little more concerned? Lol.