So… I am pretty chill, until I reach a limit,
then I explode and have a pretty bad anger.
So, I started working again and they gave me more hours, to compensate for some work I can’t do now because I am still recovering and they didn’t offer any compensation for extra work,
I got angry, as who are they to think they can take advantage of me, now that I am in a vulnerable situation and giving me more work to compensate for what?
I could sue them for not paying 3 months salary that I was not working but at least they paid for surgery and plus I had good enough salary before to not worry about anything for these 3 months and was even helping others.
But giving me extra work that I never had before without any compensation really infuriated me - I run downstairs? (Which is cool as I didn’t know I could run downstairs so soon after a leg break.)
Kicked the manager’s door open and told her everything I thought.
Now I think I went in too aggressively and I need to be more diplomatic.
I am usually extreme strategic and diplomatic but if I reach a point where I feel I am being taken advantage of, my mind gets blurred, I won’t allow anyone take advantage of me.
I just feel like I could do it without getting angry.
They cut off my extra hours after an aggressive encounter with me but yeah… I still don’t like it…
I wish I could have acted less aggressive.
Just don’t know right word for that, like aggressively go into somewhere
Now, I am usually good enough employee and very charismatic and my mistakes are often looked over because of that, but I just feel like I acted too disrespectfully and even though I feel they really infuriated me with all this stuff, I must have held my anger in and acted diplomatically.
My anger is my last resort usually, when diplomacy doesn’t work.