Search Results: get a compliment

I met at camp and I was a loner and very quiet. no one talked to me… we sat at the same table with other people but I don't know when it started but he started paying attention to me… I told a story and he was the only one that that listened and pulled up a chair front seat.. then he complimented me and said I looked pretty in my Aeropostale shirt, he had a twin sister who sat next to me and talked to me and asked questions, and I never knew our mom’s exchanged numbers to car pool his mom asked my mother

he mentioned doing something to his wife and kept looking at me

his mother noticed me and I was known for not smiling and she told me to smile

I don’t know what he saw I was so pathetic and unsmart…

he’s the only guy who was ever kind to me and made me feel seen.

Life went on ofc he followed a couple of my cousins but never me and I believe he got my number but never reached out so I never really thought about him.

I ended up moving out of state for college and he moved to the same city. He moved to a different city and I ended up moving there for a job offer.

he's married and has a wife and he seems like a good dad and husband.. I did reach out to congratulate him and he left it on read so I moved on

Some people think complimenting someone else’s looks is harmless… others think it’s disrespectful when you’re in a relationship.

I think it depends on the context. Saying someone looks nice is different from constantly praising someone else’s attractiveness or overdoing it.

Personally, I don’t usually get jealous, but I do think being in a relationship changes things a bit. I probably wouldn’t compliment another guy’s looks while my partner was standing right there because it might make him uncomfortable or give the wrong impression.

What do you think?