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I've come across a lot of women in my life and I'm easy to talk to so they tend to open up and share personal details of our lives. In addition, I have a lot of female friends in my circle and have good insight into picking up on human behavior.

One thing I've notice is that a lot of girls who have issues with their dad, whether their dad left the family when they were young or they just had a poor relationship (aka resent him), often tend to be heavy alcoholics. I've also notice that said girls tend to be party girls and easy picking for fuckboys/players.

For example, I once knew a girl who just finished college and wanted to party her ass off before she officially started working. She got tricked by a guy who gave her a place to stay for the holidays and promised to show her a good time if she blew him. Needless to say she did it and the guy after getting serviced by her kind of ignored her ass and she spent most of her trip obsessing about this guy and how much of an asshole he is. And this girl's father is in her life but she considers him an asshole.

Another girl I know for example is heavily into fitness, social media and also drinks a lot. She has a bad relationship with her dad who she claims was abusive to her mom. Now she is in a relationship with a male who keeps their interaction a secret and has like little to no social media pictures with her. Basically keeping her as a secret booty call on the side, so that his main girl doesn't find out.

I have more examples but just wanted to know if women in general who have issues with their dad tend to gravitate towards fuckboys/players?

I only get teased a little bit in school normally. It was really just getting called names sometimes but that happens to everyone. In bio this one kid shoots spitballs which is embarrassing but not too bad.

But a month ago two of the lacrosse players cornered me in the bathroom and flushed my head in the toilet like a fucking high school drama! and it feels like everyone in the school knows about it.

People laugh at me randomly. When I talk to girls now they make up an excuse to leave or try to ignore me. My confidence is gone, how do I fix it? I really want a girlfriend