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A woman couldn’t really date a guy that worked at McDonald’s or didn’t earn money unless he’s in college. A man’s career and money are so important. Not to mention women put a lot of emphasis on things a man actually cannot control like height. they put your human value on these things.
Men don’t do this.

Men just care if the girl is pretty and nice. There’s endless pretty girls and it just goes to show that men actually like the girl for her. For actual genuine reasons. The bar is so low for men.

I've done some thinking and I've realized that my parents never raised me. They provided all the time but they didn't teach me things, spend time with me and when they did, my father never had 1 nice word, and when I say not 1 nice word, I mean not 1 nice word.

Every time, he scolds me over the tiniest thing and side-eye's at me, praying he finds something to scold me for again.

My mom is entirely submissive to him and joins in, despite her actually showing that she cares for me, unlike my dad who if my mom left him, would've been more than happy to leave me and my brother to fend for ourselves.

For this reason, it has been 16 years since I ate at a dinner table with them. I always took food to my room to avoid my fathers threats to beat me, him yelling at me me to shut up when I asked how his day was, and since my mom always got home hours after he did, he could treat me as bad as he wanted.

Once I grew and started going to the gym, his threats stopped. But his scolding remains, I dream of punching him in the face and telling him he's the worst father in the world.

I'm at my wits end with my father, I hate being around him, he's angry, he never says one nice thing and he's even gone as far as to ask my mother if I even need my medicine for my Cystic Fibrosis.

I am only just now realizing on my own, all that I missed out on from them giving up on me making it to 20 years old when I was born with Cystic Fibrosis. I love my mother, she's stood by me through everything but she just didn't have it in her to raise me at all.

She never even tried to raise me, she just insulted me until I was too big. And once I became a gun owner, he became afraid of me.

He should be, he pressed his hand against my head, calling me an embarrassment of a son and warning me not to test him as his breath reeked of beer one night camping when I was 11. If he did that again now, I'd show him who the weak one always was: Him

Did your parents raise you?

I mean we tend to be programmed like that, and there is nothing we can do about it really. It sucks because either you stay single and feel that there is something missing, or you find a girl and you probably are going to face a myriad of problems (money based mostly), and there is always the risk of a heartbreak.

Just think of Elvis for instance Pricilla left him, and it caused him much emotional distress (and money!). You Were Always on My Mind was surely written for her.

It goes to show how cruel is nature. It does not care about us as individuals, but rather nature treats us as a medium of its continuity.