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Why would my boyfriend always be thinking of our future early in the relationship?

For context, we became officially in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than 1 week now, about 10 days but we've been talking for 4 months. However, aside from being clingy, and always mentioning that he's always...
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Is it better to stick with casual dating/hookups?

People are so afraid of commitment for various of reasons. Casual dating/hookups are the go-to options because you don’t have to see the same person everyday, or ever again. You can see them once and that’s it. Seems like...
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I’ve been a girlfriend for 7yrs. Am I wasting time?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7yrs. I was a bad girlfriend for the first couple of years. I come from a destructive family and I was very damaged. Along the way I made mistakes and cheated. I have done my best to repair...
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What even are we?

So, there's this guy. No specifics because it's identifiable, but we go back two years now. He's one of the best people I know, and had (or at least had until I messed up a lot the last few weeks) respect for me. We (by...
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I'm desperate to settle down. How do I not scare him off?

I'm 28 and all I want is to get married. I see my boyfriend (he's 30, we barely began dating 10 days ago, talking 2 months ago) and mainly look at the fatherhood potential, apart from everything else that I like about...
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How does love make you feel?

I used to want love more then anything I wanted nothing more yo find that special lady I’d spend the rest of my life with. Despite that when it comes to dating it’s been nothing but struggles and disappointment for me,...
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Why do girls think guys are afraid of commitment but girls don't want relationships?

So I did an experiment where I went are around asking girls if they were single. And if they where I'd ask them if they wanted to be in a relationship. And 100% of the time the girls said no. Now maybe girls are...
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Boyfriend pulls out from house purchase and wants to travel instead?

Me and him have dated for a year, lived together for 6 months. We met at a time when we were both ready to get on the property ladder and after some debating we considered buying together since we are both high income...
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Is it normal to go on vacations with only guy friend and I?

Lately, guy friend and I went to a beach resort with just the two of us. It was really intimate emotionally. I cried, he consoled me and we just talk about our lives in the past, what we are afraid of, where we want to...
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Seeing a guy with mixed signals - what do these mean and what would you do?

I've been seeing a guy (im crazy about) for a month - we have a very strong connection and very strong chemistry. A couple weeks ago he mentioned he wasn't yet ready for a commitment and wanted to see where things go, to...
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Guy seems emotionally attach to me and I dont know what to do about it?

For context, I'm a commitment phobe and we used to have a situation in the past where I helped him to get away from his abusive ex. In the process, I admitted my feelings to him to which he rejected me. Lately, he has...
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Am I the asshole for wanting him to prioritise us over this best friend?

boyfriend and I (both 27) have been together 3 years and just moved into my parents place to save for a house together. He has paid off college loans and is in the clear financially after being in the red for the last 2...
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Is it commitment issues or disinterest?

I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months now. For starters his dad is the sheriff of where he is from, his father searched me up and uncovered all my psych ward visits, and the fact that I am a retired "only...
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I will get engaged soon and I am being bit confused?

the thing is we never lived together before and I never been in a serious relationship with full commitment it feels so new and odd to me and I'm afraid that I won't be able to get used to it is there any tips or things I...
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Do you agree with science that happiness is 50% genetic or do you agree with the bible that happiness is time and chance and opportunity?

I know good looking girls that have devoted their entire lives to trying to find rich men that are single while my friend who has never cared about how much her boyfriends made, or how popular she was, married a...
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I know good looking girls that have devoted their entire lives to trying to find rich men that are single while my friend who has never cared about how much her boyfriends made, or how Show More
Happiness is determined by good genes
Happiness is determined by good opportunity and luck
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Going with the flow?

Recently the guy I like confessed to me that he likes me too. We were having a discussion about what it is now he said that since he had gotten out of a very long relationship (15 years of friendship, 7 years of...
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Am I right to be afraid of the bond we have?

I have a close friend who is bisexual and a certified commitment phobe. I'm also a commitment phobe. He treats me like his little sister and acts very protective, always teases me and buys me food most of the time. You'd...
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What exactly is this girl doing?

I made a group of friends 2 months ago and we became very close especially me and one of the girls I used to meet her 4-5 times a week either alone or part of the group She was always sharing a lot of her personal stuff...
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Are you afraid of real commitment?

Do you have the flight response when someone tells you how they feel about you? Do you know why?
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Is this a decent message to send? This girl just stopped talking to me randomly one day but I feel like there’s more to it?

I’ve always this thing for a girl at my work. We’ve always been good friends but I feel like recently we were getting kinda closer and I felt like the feelings were getting mutual. We have a really good mutual friend and...
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