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Search Results: it s not my fault
Heart monitor wasn’t recording for 30 hours – is my doctor at fault?
I had a serious heart problem In the past. I had surgery to correct it but they said it could come back. So so for a few days ago, I've been experiencing a lot of regular heart beats. I went to my doctor. Before my...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 Is this online guy emotionally manipulating me or is it really my fault?
I matched with a guy online but never met him, we arranged 3x and each time something happened, he was asleep till 4pm and then his phone broke He said was we would meet but never did because of how he looked and the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do we (mothers) always get the blame even if we're not available or very busy?
I really enjoyed motherhood even though I've been tired some days. Though we're expected to be nearly perfect as mothers and make no mistake. Even if we make a trivial mistake where no one is hurt, just something silly;...
My clingy boyfriend gives me no space and I’m falling out—what now?
Recently I got into a relationship with a guy he loves me but he's very clingy n obsessed like he expects me to talk to him 24/7 and also want me to tell him everything and I do not get time for other activities due to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Have you ever countered an "act of service" with an "act of disservice" to camouflage your feelings for a person?
Perhaps it's just something that happens in city environments, but I've found that bc I do a lot of community service I don't pick up on a guy doing an act of service for me... My mind glosses right over them, I think, bc...
Is this girl also at fault, and should I keep my distance from her?
Yes I have asked this question before but I didn't really get much traction on my post so will post a summarized version below. I had gone to a meet and there was this girl who was being rude and kinda condescending but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I wrong to feel hurt, and is my friend also at fault for excluding me?
So there was this girl who was not very nice. We had gone for a group hangout. In the end when I was paying for my bill the other two were talking. The not nice one brought up some topic of some plans, not sure if it was...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it ever acceptable to cuss at fast food workers over long waits?
I work at mcdonald's. The drive through was backed up, and there were a lot of people in the restaurant waiting for orders. I noticed a couple had been waiting at a table for a while. I walked up to them, and said "mind...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 What does “blame the system, not yourself” really mean in real life?
I had many instances that said the same thing. It's not your fault but it's the system we live in. But I never understood its true meaning. Mostly it came down when it was unconditional love, finance, and government...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it really wrong to lead on multiple guys after a breakup for distraction?
Even before my recent boyfriend, i’ve always had this thing where i cannot be left alone without the presence of a male. I turn extremely sad and depressive if i’m alone and the only way to prevent it is by having a man...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why am I so obsessed with my looks even when others say I’m pretty?
everything i do revolves around the way i look, i cannot let myself be seen without makeup in public; even though i look similar without it- at one point i would sleep in it so i could wake up in it the next morning. I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is there really no greater pain than living with regret?
All I feel is numbness and regret over things which weren't even my fault. But I feel it anyways as I'm the only one who suffered.
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I just lazy or is ADHD and burnout hurting my job performance?
I am often told my work is not good enough even though I really try and want to be motivated. I am a custodian at a high school for context. Last year when I first started I caught on quickly. However over this school...
Why does this site feel dominated by misogynistic, woman-hating men?
Don't get me wrong I've spoken to some amazing men on this site who are open to honest and civil discussions but I've come to have a love hate relationship with this site manly because a lot of the men on this site are so...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 How common is it to survive early childhood only by sheer luck?
My mother herself told me that when I was 2 years old, I got out (the door was closed but not locked) and walked a couple blocks away from home. Meanwhile my mom and others were desperately looking for me. My mom's...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do so many men feel like the disposable sex in society?
Before i continue this, im going to say this is not women's fault, this is a societal fault. This was Marine Sgt. Tyler Ziegel and his new wife in October 2006. Do they look like happy newlyweds? Look at his face, look at...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why is it this generation of men really struggle to take accountability?
At my work im the only female union rep. I essentially do my normal work but kinda act as a let's say lawyer to my colleagues if they get in any trouble at work i can sit in there meeting and defend them and advice from a...
MissPiggy2025
Xper 4 Age: 28 Should I just pay my first speeding ticket or try to fight and reduce it?
So the state I’m in, and the section of highway I was driving is pretty well-policed for speeders most of the time. I see people getting pulled over all the time. But today it was pretty empty and later in the day on a...
Anonymous
(25-29) If I get lots of first dates but no second dates, is it my fault or just luck?
Or is it luck and looks?
Anonymous
(30-35) How can I cope with jealousy toward my close friend?
I'm very insecure and seeing her being better than me in almost everything is torturing me. I don't treat her badly because I know my insecurity is not her fault. It's so frustrating and being around her makes me even...
IloveMacDemarco4
Xper 3 Age: 21 