Search Results: just one of the guys

5 d

Has past trauma made me hypersensitive to patterns in others’ behavior?

So right now im on medical leave, but I was on nightshift for about 5 years. My ex was on nightshift but moved to dayshift at the beginning of the year. During that time, a mutual coworker started talking to me as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

5 d

Can candid body language in photos really reveal who someone loves most?

And with body language you can't lie? Is it better than words. If you see these photos what do you think the real body language says about this couple relationship? In those photos, it is the same guy with with different...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

6 d

Will I stay a lonely virgin forever, and should I try casual sex or friends with benefits?

I’m still a 20-year-old virgin. All the guys who talk to me only seem to want hookups and not a serious relationship. When older men and women see me, they always ask, “Why are you single? You’re so beautiful” or “You’re...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

6 d

Guys, what makes you date a woman who's still single over one with tons of attention?

Question for the guys 👀 What would make you choose to date a woman who’s still single instead of someone who’s already getting a lot of attention? ❤️

Fiona01

Xper 1 Age: 40

6 d

Are these friendly baristas actually flirting with me or just being nice?

I go to cafes to get coffee a lot. Sometimes, the male baristas would be handsome young guys with super sunny, dreamy eyes when I make eye contact with them. The type of look almost as if they want to hit on me. I don't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

6 d

Are guys just more openly animalistic in approaching women nowadays?

Basically, I don't remember guys being this overtly animalistic when I was younger. Now... it's like a complete free for all. Guys just seem to say whatever's on their mind -- often something very sexual, which I was...

DishLady

Influencer Age: 52

Entertainment & Arts

7 d

How do I end this story?

Olivia has a one night stand with a random stranger after getting drunk at a bar with him. 2 months later, she is a new hire at a publishing company. The guy turns out to be her new boss named Max who just got back...

Simslover92

Master Age: 34

7 d

Can I find someone’s Instagram from a restaurant receipt name and employee ID?

I was at a restaurant today and the cutest guy was working and helping. He flirted a bit but never gave me his info or name. I asked for no receipt but he still gave me one. All that is on there is his employee id and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

8 d

Why did this guy suddenly ‘ghost’ me after 3 amazing months of dating?

I matched with a guy on a dating app. He and I are talking for a bit and the chemistry is great, we have a lot of the same interests. We agree to go on a date a week later to watch a movie and grab a drink, and I felt...

Guttercat8

Xper 1 Age: 23

8 d

Why do guys always seem to approach me when I’m going through one of the worst times of my life?

What kind of approachable vibe could I possibly be giving off when I'm literally in misery? Can they just smell the vulnerability on me or something? 🤨

beebella

Master Age: 32

What kind of approachable vibe could I possibly be giving off when I'm literally in misery? Can they just smell the vulnerability on me or something? 🤨

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8 d

Is anyone else genuinely okay with nobody finding them attractive?

I’m a guy who is 22 and will turn 23 next month. I’m not particularly attractive, and I’m short, standing at just 5’4”. No one has ever really had a crush on me. Last year, I met a girl and we became close, but...

sagahsvs

Xper 1 Age: 22

8 d

What level of attraction do these repeated smiles and looks suggest?

At a conference, I don’t know this guy personally—he was on the band. One time I was leaving the bathroom and as I turned the corner he saw me. His eyes got wide, he smiled, and waved at me while still walking with...

Anonymous

(18-24)

9 d

Avoidant men: have you ever stopped ghosting the same woman you kept hurting?

I’ve been dealing with a guy for years who has a strong pattern of pulling away when things get emotionally intense. The cycle usually goes like this: We get closer / talk more / hang out He gets overwhelmed, stressed,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

9 d

Is love for everyone?

I just don’t know anymore therapy my whole life. I was diagnosed autistic, I am now 48. My whole life I’ve always wanted to grow old with someone and have a wife. A girl that I was set up with told my friend she thought I...

Dbman99

Xper 2 Age: 48

9 d

Why do some women avoid or act distant toward men they secretly like?

What body language is common when a girl likes a guy? What is the purpose behind these behaviours? There is no single sign that guarantees attraction, as everyone is different. However, some common body language signs...

srazo

Xper 3 Age: 24

Shopping & Gifts

9 d

What’s a thoughtful graduation gift for our newly qualified carer friend?

One of my guy friends and I wonder what kind of tafe graduation gift we should give our girl friend, who is now a qualified carer. Should it be something simple and small, like a semi precious piece of jewellery, like a...

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

10 d

What type of dating app bio is most attractive for a man?

Leaving this question open to both guys and girls. I want to hear what women respond best to and what works from the male perspective too. I think I have a pretty good profile photo with a good smile (and that’s saying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

11 d

How to help someone become more emotionally intelligent?

i'll try to keep this short since no one wants a whole essay. but i've been talking to this guy for almost four months, and i really do like him. we call multiple times a day for hours at a time. he's funny, witty,...

naowhat

Xper 1 Age: 19