Search Results: mess up a relationship

Am I just traumatized with baggage or is it a sign? ?

My last relationship was a shit show. All the little things he said, and did was just messed up. This new guy, however, is way nicer, but I’ve noticed he’s been saying the same things that the last guy I was in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

(M24) in my first relationship, got any tips or common sense when being in a relationship?

I just recently got into a relationship and made it official, I’m painfully awestruck by her and find her more and more pretty every time I see her. This being my first relationship I don’t want to mess up on it or come...

DMkua808

Xper 1 Age: 25

I just recently got into a relationship and made it official, I’m painfully awestruck by her and find her more and more pretty every time I see her. This being my first relationship I

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What should I do?

I’ve been with my partner for almost 7.5 years and have known his passcode to his phone just as he knows mine. Recently I was setting something up for a account he has and needed a text code that was sent to his phone,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How should I feel now that my baby sister is pregnant?

I just found out my younger sister is pregnant and while I do feel happy for her and can't wait to be an Aunt, I always thought I would be the first one to have a child being the oldest. I'm also happy that my...

Simslover92

Influencer Age: 34

Need a relationship advice on what I should do?

So I have been talking to this girl since 2019, we used to talk a lot late nights then in 2023 we got into relationship it was going well, then after a couple of months I started doing pot under my college friends...

Ezio404

Xper 1 Age: 21

Why would my ex ask for permission to add a guy she used to have feelings for on her fb?

So my ex broke up with me a week ago, and tbf it was cause I didn't trust her due to my own past self traumas with cheating ex's, and also being an anxious attachment style, after she ended it I went into no contact and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Netflix and chill and Drinking or just a chill thing with drinking?

Okay, to the point. I asked this woman that knows I like her, and she knows I want to Fuck her, and be in a relationship with her and all. Right now we a friends but not like a friend zone deal. I asked her let have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is my ex who I broke up with nearly six years ago trying to mess with my new relationship?

An ex who I broke up with six years ago and is part of the same friend group is annoyed that I don’t want to hang around with them and only my other friends within the group. admittedly I should have cut all contact but I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

The covert assistant?

Anyone ever deal with a woman who tries to be a secret but is anything but that? she might as well spray paint "I was here" across a guys entire body. When i can easily tell it's supposed to be some kind of secret thing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

There is emptiness inside me? I AM thriving for a loving man?

But on the other side, I am unable to trust anybody else. I WANT TO trust but I can't. As an introvert person its difficult to approach the person you like. I dont like to talk much of the time but I need a companion as...

Sweety_Torneeya

Xper 5 Age: 28

I gave mixed signals, he made me feel pressured, now it’s a mess. What to do?

I accidentally gave a guy mixed signals so I apologized and I explained that I'm new to dating and just want to be friends. Is it rude if he still tries to make a move on me? In a nutshell, I met a guy at a friend’s...

The_Kroakie_Frog

Xper 1 Age: 40

Did I make the wrong decision after a 2 year relationship break up… even though I thought I’d be fine but ended up crying uncontrollably?

Before I made my decision it seemed really clear and what I wanted, but while we were talking it out and me telling him that I want a break, it was the hardest thing in the world for me. I was crying uncontrollably and I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

How do you handle pressure from your workplace?

Pressure was mounted on me recently at work and I messed up big time. What do you do when you are under pressure either from work or even in a relationship?

Samuel75

Xper 5 Age: 25

I know im dumb for still chasing a would be friendship?

I want to talk still. I guess if I talked to him i would just tell him that I want to tell him more things he’s done that have bothered me. How I don’t feel like he truly understands my emotions are the effects his abuse...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He's making me lose my mind. why can't I break away from him?

My ex-boyfriend and I are still talking and having sex. He's seeing another woman, and I'm talking to other guys as well. But the thing is, I'm not sleeping with any of them. The only person I'm sleeping with is my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did you go back to a relationship you know wasn’t good?

I recently got back together with my ex. We werent broken up for that long.. I left him because he kept calling me names and accusing me of nasty things, and I honestly do not know why because the things he would get...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I doing something wrong or does he have unresolved trauma?

the longer we stayed in the rent together the further apart we came. He had developed this tendency of being very verbally abusive. He had ways of being manipulative or gaslighting. He had developed ways of in our...

xxheart09xx

Xper 5 Age: 35

Marriage & Weddings

Why is marriage so pushed on people in American society?

I'm 41 and unmarried by choice because I have seen no happy people in relationships my whole life. My parents are in a horrible loveless marriage. my sister is having serious reconsideration. My dumbass grandparents put...

Anonymous

(36-45)