There is emptiness inside me? I AM thriving for a loving man?

[Sweety_Torneeya]

But on the other side, I am unable to trust anybody else. I WANT TO trust but I can't. As an introvert person its difficult to approach the person you like. I dont like to talk much of the time but I need a companion as well as its really critical for me to compromise on certain things. I have entered the messed-up age where a person is full of doubts and suspicions and can't easily trust other person untill they know them for years. Online is not a good option. Which is filled with criminals, psychopaths, frauds, fake people and unknown people. What should I do for my inner peace because I dont want to ruin it for someone else. Marriage and relationship is kind of messy stuff for me. Which consumes lots of energy from a person...

I am confuse... and feeling bad for myself. The changes in my personality is pathetic. Well, majority of the men are cheaters its a reality

[DishLady]

My goodness, the negativity is very heavy... I'd suggest you speak to a professional about this.

I think you possibly meant "longing" not "thriving" since there's nothing positive enough to indicate that "thriving" is happening... however you're also very negative about guys in general.

And ok... we've ALL had bad experiences... and there are some real pos sort of guys out there... but there are also many pos sort of women out there as well... Sort of keeps a universal balance...

If you are LONGING for inner peace just step away from the whole scene and figure out WHO YOU ARE on your own... without the guys.

Once you know who YOU are you'll find it easier to attract the correct sort of guys for you.

If you only see yourself and what you do as "pathetic" then that's all anyone else will see too...

[Grond21]

You are indeed in a really difficult situation and pretending otherwise wouldn't help. I'm glad that you can see that. There is no panacea that will guarantee you a wonderful trustworthy man who will contribute to your happiness forever, but there are some things you could do to increase those chances.
For starters you need a hobby outside your house. Something that other people do, but also something you enjoy. And you need to go regularly. Second is to be chosen as a friend by an extroverted person. This is a game changer. You can also attend places where those kind of men are more likely to hang out, such as church or other family-oriented places.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Just put yourself out there the trust will come in time. Your trust should be earned never given

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the quest for love and trust, a tale as old as... dating apps! 😜 It's fascinating how introversion mingles with a deep desire for connection. Your feelings are valid, but trust often requires giving a little before demanding a lot. Start slow, and focus on small, genuine connections. Not all men are plotting world domination with ghosting techniques 😉, so don't let a few ruin the potential for others. Remember, even introverts can find the right person who respects their pace! Coaching tip: Love is a dance, so let your heart learn the steps, one at a time. You've got this! ❤️

[Reem12345reem]

same actually

[eagle1951]

sounds like it

[slatyb]

Get counseling.

[MasterKS]

yes you need a man.