Do you think a man can love me with passion , warmth and love? I am kind of detached from reality and emotionally hard to access and kinda detached?

[Anonymous]

Don't get me wrong I have deep emotions. I cry easy and often in private. I fall in love secretly, feel anger etc. I am not detached but I am hard to connect with and access for people. I don't know why. And recently I decided I want to be loved passionately by an amazing man. I doubt I am loveable.

I operate like I dont give a crap about my life. I am kind of detached in a sense that I am calm no matter what and just see things that happen as if they are just normal. I guess the word ks kinda apathetic? Lol i am having a hard time explaining this. I am not a psychopath or anything like that. Probably depressed in a sense. Imagine Youtuber Andrew Hale... I'm like a female version of him in a sense. Lol.

But I don't want to just box myself into some label either. So just forget I wrote that term.

What can I give a man? I am like a slave. I can dispassionately fo what he wants me to. I am psychic I can read his mind and empathic so feel his emotions. I can just do whatever he wants or asks for. (Nothing insane or super boundary crossing obviously.) Plus I appreciate hi good qualities and adore and admire him. I don't know what that's worth but I can get obsessed and love a man.

[Anonymous]

I’m very similar to you in a lot of ways, I’ve been told that I can be very “complicated” to deal with mainly bc like you I am somewhat “detached”. The first thing is you need to love yourself first, bc how can you love anyone else or expect someone else to love you if you don’t even feel like you are lovable.

I’m sure you’ll find someone that can love you with warmth and passion, as long as you’re also willing to give back the same energy.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You say you are detached, yet when the right guy for you comes along? he won't see you as detached, just someone that needs time to get to know him properly.

[Avicenna]

He might try, but when he doesn't get the same in return, he's likely to get frustrated

[Iron_Man]

Not like that you have to get yourself straightened out first. I would recommend a good serious professional counselor twice a week

[Guy13]

So, you are all in…

[Guy13]

It sounds like you are okay to Risk, however, you also say you are both emotional and disconnected. There is confusion in this.
—When people say that what they sometimes mean is,”I can feel emotional spectrum when it affects me.” I can’t always connect with other peoples issues or pains if it does not involve me in someway.
You can and are willing to follow instruction and with those close to you feel their needs…and fill those needs.
—Outside of that interaction with your man or family…there’s not much else you connect with. Is this somewhat accurate?