What does it take to find a good honest woman who really cares and loves you, i have not been lucky in finding anyone and the few that I did have relationship with all lied and cheated, why is it so hard, does it matter that I wear my heart on my sleeve and I'm a romantic and loyal , why can't I be loved? Why am I so lonely, is it bad to show your feelings?
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I thought the kids mom was and she walked away and I raised the kids ican count on 1 hand who I was with and yet I was cheated on, I am very kind and caring I would do anything and I was affecentiate and showed that I cared but I can't seem to find my other half the missing piece my best friend. My love , does being affecentiate and caring push women away?
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You are the only one that can help that situation.
What do you think could be the reasons why you have failed to find a girlfriend?
In order to have a girlfriend, you must be pro-active and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.
If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.
But you have to work on yourself first. That would include possible shyness and social anxiety.
You can train your approach, your attitude and expression in front of a mirror for example. Think of what message you want to bring across and rehearse it until you are satisfied. The next step is the most difficult one and that is the one where you have to put in practice what you learned and rehearsed.
But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.
Also, unfortunately, the pool of available women in your age group tends to be smaller. It gets substantially more difficult to find a woman that is willing to share her life with a man that is already close to his 50s. It works both ways and for women, it is also not easy to find the kind of person that you seem to be. Good luck.
Poor judgment. A person with every good quality in the world is still going to fail in their relationships if they have poor judgment.
There could be a million reasons why so without knowing you personally it is impossible to say.