I am a 29-year-old black male a lot of people say I’m a catch, and wise beyond my years (my personal opinion I’m outgoing and funny and good looking) and in the past three years I’ve been working on my mental physical and spiritual health. I prefer to read educational books, comic books, I play video games here and there I listen to all kinds of music everything but country I also read the Bible from time to time And I can only look at myself as the common denominator. I also have two jobs and one of them being a cook. I like to keep things in my life, organized and clean, I do my best to deal with people accordingly to their behavior as necessary when it comes to conflict while trying to keep an open mind of the situation at hand. I am finding it hard to date women in my age range or generation, so I need help to understand what I’m doing wrong. Am I trying to hard or am I not trying hard enough am I self-centered or am I too caring because I know I can’t necessarily blame people or the world for me not being in a relationship maybe I’m too hard on myself or taking life too seriously but I know one thing for sure. I’m starting to not care anymore and getting way too comfortable being alone..
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It sounds like you are a well-rounded and accomplished individual with a lot to offer in a relationship. However, sometimes it can be difficult to connect with people who are not on the same wavelength as us. Here are some things you can consider to improve your dating experiences:
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Based off this description, Im not seeing a issue. What are the most negative comments you received in person from others? You dont have to share them here but reflect on them. That could be very telling
How many women have you asked out?
Well, I can see how that’s a problem that I don’t ask out a lot but most recently three. the responses I normally get is I’m not looking for a relationship. I have a boyfriend, I’m too nice, I’m too good for them. they don’t date black men or I’m not there type. Maybe you’re right I should ask more Huh
Yeah keep asking women out