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Why did you go back to a relationship you know wasn’t good?

I recently got back together with my ex. We werent broken up for that long.. I left him because he kept calling me names and accusing me of nasty things, and I honestly do not know why because the things he would get angry with me for, had no correlations to the things he was accusing me for. But the breakups was in the works…it was almost a year of dealing with absolute emotional and mental stress. I feel, really messed up by it all. I’m emotionally impulsive. I can’t keep track of my emotions. Every time I have an ouburst, I always end up crying over the guilt and realisation that I, feel completely lost. I was the complete opposite of all of that before this relationship. And it shows now. Because i took him back and I’m stupid for doing so. Because there was no going back. He was now the patient one, trying to be understanding, and fix the damage he had done. But I’m a wreck and couldn’t keep my cool a lot of the time. Maybe it is the trauma bond? Or maybe because letting go of someone you tried so much for, no matter how bad things were, is so hard. I know he’s just a person and one that did not deserve me. I hate that I ended up so ruined because of him.

i’m going through it clearly. If any of you have gone through a similar experience, some words of advice would be really helpful.

Why did you go back to a relationship you know wasn’t good?
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