I find myself apologizing a lot for giving him the cold shoulder or not quite listening to him. I go home and cry because I feel like I'm a bad person. I know it's a stretch and that I only act this way because I'm stressed and afraid of losing my job that I worked so hard to get.
Sometimes my boyfriend is very needy and doesn't like to hear MY problems because he feels I have nothing to complain about. Yet, he tells me his problems, I listen, sometimes give him my two cents and always very supportive. He expects me to be supporting, but he isn't very supportive of me. I don't tell him this, because I don't want him feeling bad and I know he is also stressed in his situation. From the way he speaks, it appears he has no hope and blames me for "altering" the relationship. I can't sleep with myself. I never cheated on him or did anything that he doesn't approve of, but at times quite dismissive.
I just want to know if other people feel the same way or regret the way they behaved in their relationship?
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