Search Results: no spark at a date

Should I ask out a girl again if she didn't hard reject me and still wants to talk?

This year I met a girl and we didn't really talk to each other until much until this month. Some weeks ago we just kind of ran into each other afterschool in the hallways (this is highschool) and we really seemed to be...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Are we friends or meant for more?

I began dating a girl in my friend group a year back and eventually everyone found out, there was a lot of pressure on it, things were so unnatural and awkward, we kept falling out and it was a complete and utter mess. We...

Expressomantini

Xper 5 Age: 27

Dating

How to move from hookup to more?

I have been hooking up with this guy for the last 2 months. We have hung out probably around 7 times so mostly like every other week. We have tough schedules. He works night shift and has no weekend off and I have a son...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Self Steam advice ❤️?

I have a question to the guys and girls on this app. Have you ever wondered why your still alone. Not trying to sound cocky to society I might be a 6/7 in a physical scale but I have a lot to offer personality wise. I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

If a guy takes longer to get back after the first date and you don't want to force the conversation, how do you end it without ghosting?

He seems like a really good and nice guy which I really liked as a person even if there was no spark.

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

The continuing weird discussion about masculinity. . .

Years ago, when I first joined GaG, I wanted to talk about relationships. I had hopes this was a place where I could find meaningful discussions on the issues men and women have with forming meaningful bonds. I was and...

RolandCuthbert

Editor Age: 54

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Dating

We had great chemistry but he isn't ready to be serious. Does he actually not like me?

So we started to know each other at the end of October, then he started to have a huge crush on me. The following month, he came to me every night while I'm studying to talk with me, until very late night (my friends are...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

We had great chemistry but he isn't ready for relationship. Does he actually not like me?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

How to turn a woman on?

So I dated this girl for a while and things were amazing. We got on really well, she began opening up to be despite being emotionally unavailable, we always flirted and loved cuddling and kissing etc. However at some...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

How to re-attract her sexually?

For months I had been sexting a friend of mine and we would constantly touch and flirt in person and kiss on nights out and were completely into eachother. Eventually feelings started forming so we began to date....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What's your dating trick?

I've previously had no luck at all dating, I'd never even been on a date as I'd only continue getting rejected or the girl I seemingly did well talking to would stop going to school and we'd lose touch. I've...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys, if you tell a girl you want to see them again at the end of the first date unprompted do you usually mean it?

... Or could it also just be a "polite parting"? I would really appreciate some insights. After a string of first dates that didn't go anywhere or were just outright bad I'm feeling nervous after one I had Friday evening....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Girls, Ever felt zero chemistry with a hot guy?

Chemistry kinda fascinates me (like an enigma) So I’d like to hear if any women have ever been on a date with a guy who was conventionally great: awesome personality, physically hot, well-mannered etc. Yet…felt no spark...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, Why is he behaving like this?

I have a crush on a guy. I suspected he had a crush on me too. Sharing music, being flirty, he would smile every time he saw me. Likes teasing me and joking. We laughed together a lot. He would look at me a lot and even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Was I being correct?

I (29m) asked out my coworker (26f) but I started texting before the date. I'd say "goodmorning," "goodnight" each day, each time she said she was busy I'd ask her what's up, kept the convo going, etc. She was uncertain...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What to do if he doesn‘t put in a lot of effort?

I‘ve been on 3 dates with a guy and we get along really well. I just don‘t feel like he‘s putting in a lot of effort and I don‘t feel like he is super in love with me. I really like him but I‘m not madly in love with him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

If you kiss someone and feel something to they feel it too?

So this may sound bad but I slept with my exes little cousin the other day. Lets be clear my ex and I have been broken up for 6 months now and not talking for four, he has a new girlfriend and we are no longer...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls constantly tell me they feel no spark after the first date?

So I meet these girls online and the few times they do give me feedback they say they just didn't feel a spark. Like the girl I went out with tonight said we had good conversation and you didn't do anything wrong, but I...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Dating

If a guy asks you to his place for the first date, was he just trying to have sex?

Hi guys! I met a guy on tinder, and we hit it off and talked a lot for a few days and then I ended up going to his place (since I am a server and nursing student I have a weird schedule I do not get off until 10 most...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I feel dreadful. How can I move on?

I never wanted it to happen the way it did and I feel ashamed of myself. I always thought IF HE EVER became single then perhaps I’d tell him how I felt & see if he’d like to get to know each other privately eg a date or...

Anonymous

(18-24)