How to re-attract her sexually?

Anonymous

For months I had been sexting a friend of mine and we would constantly touch and flirt in person and kiss on nights out and were completely into eachother.

Eventually feelings started forming so we began to date. Initially we went from strength to strength but then we fell out. We gravitated back towards eachother but decided to take things slow to fill up the cracks, and while now we get along really well and enjoy eachothers company the sparks have faded out and there's no sexual desire or energy between us anymore and any attempts to flirt feel stale and flat.

So pretty much, without making it obvious etc, what are good ways to reignite the spark between us sexually so we can build on this friendship model? What are simple things men can do to start turning you on or what have guys you've not been interested done that made you reconsider? She notices some of my attempts way too plainly so I need ways to make her think about me in that way and be into the idea of me flirting again

I'm naturally a very confident and flirty person, but around her I now feel like a child bumbling his way through a class presentation rather than a smooth operator, so all recommendations accepted, especially on regaining confidence around her

How to re-attract her sexually?
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