Search Results: taking own advice

So there’s two girls.. let’s call one of them April. She been with her babydaddy over 12 years now. Well she has a history dating multiple men. nevertheless, she kicks them out and run back to her babydaddy. This girl we can call April got involved with a married man. She knew about the woman but didn’t know the man was married. However, her sister knew the entire time but didn’t tell her. Multiple family members knew but didn’t tell her.
she was giving this man money and couldn’t even get the man to even pay a bill for her. She was taking care of a man with two jobs, who still is married to his wife.

another woman we can call “Daph” was another woman involved with this married man. Spent more than 10k on him and was giving him advice about the other woman April. The married man was calling both women to get advice and to vent about one another. The married man always referred to them as “friend”. Daph found out he was married by Facebook.

the married man wouldn’t let either one or their relatives tag him in anything on Facebook. he didn’t add either woman on his social medias. You weren’t allowed to post anything romantic on his page. He had post approval on.

well the girl April found out about the married man but couldn’t get information on her, so she started digging.

The married man has his wife living like a queen. Both women are currently trying to fight the wife. The wife is a stay at home wife and has a private chef. She gets her own money. they just bought a home together. his wife don’t have to worry about anything.

all this went down on Facebook.

So I'm a 50/50 girl because I believe that I should pay my own way just in case the first date doesn't work out. A guy asked me out and we decided to go 50/50 but he never showed up. He always said he forgot or was too busy to go on a date despite offering to take me. I didn't understand why this was because he wasn't paying for anything.

There was another guy I talked to which i wanted to go to a coffee shop date ( where we both pay for our own drinks) even though I personally hate coffee it just seemed like the cheapest option at the time. - this guy was rude and inconsiderate of me and I don't know why this was.

I thought men preferred 50/50 or super cheap dates but every time I do this the date either goes bad or the guy doesn't even seem interested in me. I constantly see men saying they appreciate a women who splits or is low maintenance/ cheap so I don't understand why I'm getting such ironic responses when I do this. Maybe I shouldn't be taking dating advice from the internet?