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I was in a situationship when I was 20 I realised that when I asked him if he could meet me at a theme park during our first date he made excuses saying he’s busy then I set a trap for him I gave him a fake promise that ‘why don’t we meet in August where we will have sex.’ Next thing I knew he didn’t make excuses he came and took the bait then when he wasn’t looking I bolted out leaving him all alone. Turns out he only cared about sex he didn’t love me like he claims he got mad and insists on breaking up with me then I retorted by saying ‘if our first date doesn’t include sex would you have come?’ I was blocked instantly on WhatsApp after that remark. Then 4 years later I decided to spy on him by using a fake Instagram account turns out he has been with his new girlfriend for 3 years! I decided to warn her about him, that he only cares when there’s sex involved and I also stated the year that I met him and which month I first met him online. She blocked me, he unblocked my real Instagram account only to report it for deletion but it didn’t work. I noticed my fake email where I can access was greyed out with an exclamation mark and it wasn’t there before, it only happened after he tried to report my real account. I have a feeling he tried to hack into my fake email since I have evidence against him as I even saved the messages from years ago. I have a feeling he’s using her since she might be more compliant to sex and that she’s currently in a toxic relationship with him. Has he changed to be a better boyfriend? Or he’s still the same toxic boyfriend because that’s my experience. I wouldn’t consider him an ex but a fraud who claims he “loves” me. If more people vote option B I will stop and accept it if he doesn’t change then I hope she will leave him and get a better man.