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28F, I’ve gone this long without ever meeting someone I genuinely like or ever falling in love. I get matches on the dating apps, if I want to score the dates that hasn’t been the issue. It’s always the ghosting, fizzling out, lack of interest from either person etc. I use the apps very casually but it seems like dating happens so effortlessly, regardless of their looks. I’m pretty reserved & far from being too eager so the “love will find you when you’re not looking” cliche isn’t working. I game which can be social, I don’t really have friends but the apps or even just running into someone outside (never organic) hasn’t happened

my boyfriend of four years isn’t the most affectionate loving type. He tries to be for me since he knows I like lots of love. I asked if he thinks about me all the time and he said not all the time since I’m busy at work (he does solar install on the roof) but he said I do think about you in the morning and after so everyday. He said I gotta focus on work and not die babe but I think about you when I’m not working. It hurt my feelings that he said that like oh work is more important or that thinking about me is less important since he said i focus on not falling off the roof or whatever like being a jerk ya know. You guys think this is mean?