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In college-

met a guy a while back, we hit it off immediately and kinda naturally transitioned into a friends with benefit dynamic. After a few weeks, I mentioned we should stop coming over to his place for a while (didn’t want to get attached) and he acted surprised.

he was really sweet, bought me snacks, initiated hang outs etc

he kinda started acting hot and cold afterwards. He would still casually imply to hang out and ask about me and other guys, but takes long to reply/ doesn’t reply to texts. Before when we saw each other we would both be excited but last time we saw each other he was quite cold and aloof and didn't really talk that much, but still sat next to me at event.

Did he lose interest or did he feel like I was indirectly rejecting him by saying should stop coming over for a while (he’s sensitive)

pls help decode this dudes behavior lol

-blair

Our dog is a mutt/ pitbull mix looks like the picture his name is dodge he's a year and a half. We rescued him from a shelter after being returned for being "too destructive" we've had to make many changes to how we secure the house before we leave so he doesn't destroy things. My boyfriend Steven trains him (he's a first time dog owner) he teaches him basic commands and a bit more but this dog has attacked 2 dogs, wants to kill my pet kitten. Sometimes mistakes small children for animals, I want the mutt gone. People shouldn't be afraid of him, he just has that energy. My boyfriend doesn't want to rid of this dog at all he's extremely attached like he birthed dodge himself. He makes so many excuses the dog can chew off my arm and he'll probably reward him. He spends x amount of money on toys yet can save 250 to buy lessons. We have him on 400mg of trazadone and he's still psycho. Wwyd? My boyfriend is stubborn and will absolutely not let this dog go, I just want to be able to walk around my neighborhood without tearing for others dogs and possibly children.